134. How to Make Good Decisions in Tough Situations and Stay Connected as a Couple

Blended Family Breakthrough

Isn't it a great feeling when you're united as a couple around important decisions? It really doesn't matter if the decision is big or small — we feel connected when we're on the same page.

But, if you're anything like us, you've probably run into those moments when decision-making seems to create disconnection.

And let's be honest. Disconnection stinks.

Over the past 21 years of our marriage, making decisions together has proven to be a lot tougher than we thought it might be. Even the small things can become big things in the midst of our blended family dynamics.

Countless times, we've felt stuck…

…but we've also discovered some simple ways to get UN-stuck.

In this episode, we're exploring the good, the bad, and the ugly about decision-making in a blended family. We'll share some do's and don'ts along with some stories about our own journey and some of the couples we've supported.

Every blended couple needs a strategy for decision-making that creates connection so they can avoid confusion, pain and division.

So, go ahead and hop into the conversation and we'll meet you there!

You'll Discover:

• The underlying tension that creates discomfort and disconnection when decisions need to be made
• Practical tips for making united decisions - and minimizing the Trapped Teammate and Stranded Stranger dynamic

Resources from this Episode:

• Episode 21: What is the Stranded Stranger & Trapped Teammate Experience
• Episode 22: One Simple - and Romantic - Way to Combat Being Stranded or Trapped
• Episode 23: How to Move From Feeling Stranded to Being Connected
• Episode 24: What if You Could Relieve the Trapped Teammate Pressure?
• Episode 95: Do You Dread Negotiating Schedule Changes with your Ex - Try These 5 Practical Tips
• Episode 13: How to Parent as a Team in Your Blended Family
• Episode 83: 4 Everyday Favoritism Traps that Dishearten Kids in a Blended Family

Ready for some extra support?

We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

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