After 8 years of showing up, laughing, and growing alongside each of you, we’ve reached the bittersweet moment of saying farewell. In this final episode, we take a walk down memory lane—sharing the stories, laughs, lessons, and challenging moments that shaped The Black Girl Bravado. We are forever grateful for the space we’ve built here, and for ev…

Do you ever feel drained after social events, wondering how others seem to thrive in the chaos? Are you struggling to balance your need for solitude with the demands of an extroverted world? In this episode, we explore the quiet power of introverts and how they can leverage their unique strengths to succeed without compromising who they are. Whethe…

Today we’re putting ourselves in other people's shoes and wondering what we’d do in their situations. It’s time for “AITA?” What would you do if your best friend said your wedding plans were unrealistic? Is it fair to block a girl on your husband's Instagram if she's flirting with him? Should you pay your sibling's rent if they only work part-time?…

How do you show up in your dating life? Are you clear about your boundaries and what you truly want, or are you settling for what comes your way? In this episode, we chat with Dating Coach Anwar White to explore the nuances of modern dating. We discuss the strategies you can implement to take control of your dating experience and set the tone from …

Have you ever questioned what truly defines a luxurious life? Is it about owning the latest designer label or driving the most expensive car? Or is there something more profound to luxury than material possessions? In this episode, we challenge the traditional notion of luxury and explore the intangible aspects that can enrich our lives. If you’re …

Ever find yourself feeling a pang of jealousy when your partner interacts with someone else? Or maybe you've experienced the uncomfortable sensation of being the target of someone else's jealousy? Jealousy is a complex and human emotion that can rear its head in even the most loving relationships. Whether you're struggling with your own jealousy or…

Have you ever felt disappointed or upset when your favorite influencer or celebrity made a mistake? In today's digital age, it's easier than ever to form deep connections with people we've never met in person. Parasocial relationships, these one-sided bonds we develop with celebrities, influencers, or fictional characters, can be both rewarding and…

Ever wondered what truly makes a relationship special? Is it just the physical spark, or something deeper? Today we’re chatting about the five pillars of intimacy and discovering how they intertwine to create human connection. From the emotional depth of vulnerability to the intellectual spark of shared ideas, we’re digging into how the power of in…

This week we’re playing the “Hella Awkward” card game, putting ourselves on the spot with questions that are sure to spark unexpected conversations, laughter, and maybe even a little bit of cringing. Tune in as we tackle everything from light-hearted fun to deep, thought-provoking prompts. Whether you’re ready to laugh along with us or want to try …

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the sheer amount of stuff in your life? Do you find yourself constantly scrolling through social media, coveting the latest trends and gadgets? If so, you're not alone. In today's consumer-driven culture, it's easy to get caught up in the endless cycle of consumption. But at what cost? In this episode we discuss: T…

Ever found yourself waiting in anticipation for a friend who seems to exist in a different time zone? Or maybe you're the one who's always fashionably late? We've all been there, and it can be a source of frustration and confusion. Today we’re discussing the psychology of lateness— rather you’re a timekeeper or a time-bender, this episode is for yo…

Have you ever wondered if fillers are worth the hype? Or maybe you’re considering getting them but aren’t sure where to start. In this episode, we’re sitting down with Aesthetic Nurse Practitioner, Ginille Brown to be educated on the world of cosmetic injectables. We’re getting the tea on the science behind filler, the techniques and potential outc…

Are you constantly putting others first? Do you feel guilty for taking time for yourself? It's time to rethink your relationship with selfishness. In this episode, we challenge the societal stigma surrounding self-care and explore how prioritizing your needs can actually benefit those around you. If you’re ready to redefine what it means to be self…

Tired of waiting for your dream life? It's time to become the CHOOSER! In this episode, we explore shifting your mindset from seeking validation to setting your own standards. If you’re ready to take control, get over the drama and attract what you truly deserve, this episode is for you! In this episode we discuss: How to effectively and confidentl…

Have you ever felt like you're constantly walking on eggshells around others, trying to predict their moods? Today's episode explores emotional monitoring, the tendency to hyper-focus on deciphering the emotions of those around you. It might sound harmless, but this behavior can be a major drain on your well-being. If you’re ready to break-free fro…

Do you ever feel like you're constantly chasing the next thing? A new job, a bigger house, that perfect vacation? We're bombarded with messages that tell us happiness lies in achievement. But what if there's another way? What if true fulfillment comes from learning to embrace contentment and appreciating what you already have? In this episode we di…

Do you find yourself saying yes when you really mean no? Or maybe you hold back from expressing your opinions or needs out of fear of upsetting others? If so, you might be stuck in a pattern of passive behavior. But there's good news! It's possible to develop your assertive communication skills. If you’re ready to find your voice and communicate wi…

Feeling lost, confused, and overwhelmed in your 20s? Does the pressure to have it all figured out make you want to crawl under the covers? Well, what if we told you that your 20s are actually the perfect time for exploration, stumbles, and unexpected discoveries? In this episode, we'll tap into the wisdom of hindsight and share the advice we needed…

Do you remember the goals/intentions you set at the top of the year? How successful have you been in achieving them?? As the initial enthusiasm of the new year fades and we find ourselves in the midst of the year, it's not uncommon to realize that the goals we set at the beginning of the year might not be resonating as they once did. Whether you're…

What do you need in order to be vulnerable and feel safe within a friendship? Today, we’re joined by part of the cast of Harlem, Grace Byers and Shoniqua Shandai, to discuss the power of choosing our love stories and how to curate our romantic and platonic relationships. In this episode we discuss: Reasons why we’re not always vulnerable in our fri…

Friendships are the glue that holds life together, but let's be honest, they can get expensive. Nights out, birthday dinners, weekend getaways - it all adds up! If you’re interested in understanding the financial side of friendship and how to navigate it without sacrificing fun or your savings, this episode is for you! In this episode we discuss: H…

Are your priorities the home, your children and your husband? Or, are you more focused on your career, goals and dreams? Do you have to choose? Or can you have it all?! Today, we’ll find out! This week Germani and Brittany are joined by their best friends, Adrienne and Kaila, to discuss what womanhood looks like for them. By now, you probably can t…

Ever worn the "ride or die" label in your relationship? You're not alone. In this episode, we're joined by Shanita Hubbard, author of "Ride or Die: A Feminist Manifesto For The Well-Being of Black Women," to dissect this common trope in Black romantic relationships. In this episode we discuss: The Ride or Die archetype— where it started and how it’…

When was the last time you asked your friend questions like: When do you trust me? What about our dynamic concerns you? What is a mistake you think I keep making? If you’re anything like us, you likely haven’t lol After being friends for over a decade we’d like to believe we know each other pretty well, but do we really?! Today we’re deepening our …

Friendships are the cornerstones of our lives, but navigating them can be tricky! In this episode, we explore the world of female friendships with Danielle Bayard Jackson, a friendship coach and national speaker. Danielle, speaks about her new book "Fighting for Our Friendships," and shares her expertise on the science of female platonic connection…

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Do you ever feel like you're going through the motions, but not quite sure why? Feeling lost about what truly matters to you? This episode is all about uncovering your Core Desired Feelings (CDFs) - the emotional states YOU crave most in life. These are unique and special to you, not a one-size-fits-all list. In this episode we discuss: What are Co…

Do you ever feel like you're not good enough unless...You achieve that next promotion? You hit a certain number on the scale? Someone finally "likes" your latest post? We all have those nagging voices that whisper limitations. In this episode we’re exploring the concept of conditions of worth - those invisible rules set for ourselves that dictate o…

Ever feel like you "need" that new gadget everyone seems to have? Do you find yourself endlessly scrolling through social media, bombarded by friends' perfect vacations and ideal lives? You might be experiencing mimetic desire, the powerful urge to want what others want. In this episode we unpack the psychology of mimetic desire, its impact on our …

Are you in a cycle of starting and stopping too many things? Frustrated that progress feels slow and motivation fades? What if the secret to achieving your goals wasn't about grand gestures, but about tiny, consistent actions? In this episode we’re exploring the often-underestimated power of consistency. If you’re ready to stay on track and finally…

Have you ever made a decision you still regret to this day? Do you constantly worry about making the "wrong" choice? Don’t worry, you're not alone. In this episode, we’re discussing regret aversion: why we fear making the wrong choice and how it impacts our decisions. If you’re ready to overcome regret, make decisions with confidence and live more …

Feeling constantly pulled towards notifications, social media scrolling endlessly, or maybe that afternoon sugar crash just won't quit? These could all be signs of a dopamine overload. In this episode, we'll explore the science behind dopamine, the brain's feel-good chemical, and how excessive stimulation can disrupt our focus, happiness, and overa…

Have you ever felt stuck in a loop? Maybe a negative thought pattern keeps replaying, or an old habit keeps rearing its head? Well, guess what? The answer might lie in the subconscious mind, a powerful force shaping our lives often without our awareness. Whether you want to boost your confidence, conquer a fear, or simply attract more positivity, t…

How often do you find yourself second-guessing your actions based on what others might think? Do you silence your voice or hold back from pursuing your passions due to the fear of being judged? Is the constant pressure to present a perfect image taking a toll on your mental well-being? If you answered yes, you're not alone. Today we’re exploring th…

Feeling stuck in autopilot? Do you ever wonder if you're truly making the choices that will lead you to a fulfilling life? In this episode, we explore the incredible power of choice and equip you with practical tools to make decisions with confidence and clarity. Whether you're looking to improve your career path, navigate personal relationships, o…

Have you ever received praise for your work but convinced yourself it was just a fluke? Ever felt like a fraud, even though you were achieving success? Or maybe you constantly compare yourself to others, feeling like they're somehow more qualified than you? These are just a few signs of imposter syndrome, a psychological phenomenon that can affect …

In this episode we unpack the complexities of "Eldest Daughter Syndrome" and explore the unique challenges and expectations placed on the firstborn daughters. Discover the signs and symptoms, from perfectionism to struggles with expressing emotions, tied to the birth order theory proposed by Alfred Adler. The episode offers practical coping strateg…

Ever feel like someone uses "I don't know how" as a superpower to avoid chores, responsibilities, or even basic adulting? Is there a chance they're actually wielding the secret weapon of "strategic incompetence?” Today we’re unpacking the psychology behind weaponized incompetence, and equipping you with strategies to navigate this tricky dynamic, w…

Have you ever found yourself wondering about the balance between compatibility and chemistry in relationships? Can you have both compatibility and chemistry, or does one take precedence over the other? Today we’re discussing the nuances of these two relationship pillars. From shared values and long-term goals to the electrifying sparks of attractio…

What does it mean to have your own taste, distinct from the influence of trends and online pressures? How do you maintain your individuality in a sea of conformity? Today we’re discussing the complexities of preserving your uniqueness in the age of likes, shares and trending hashtags. In this episode we: Discuss how social media has limited individ…

What steals our childlike wonder? Why does curiosity often take a back seat in the hustle of adult life? What if the key to a more fulfilling life lies in the questions we ask and the paths we choose to explore? If you’re ready to reignite your curiosity, this episode is for you! In this episode we: Discuss factors that contribute to the decline of…

What does femininity mean to you? How do you express your feminine energy? In today’s episode we’re exploring the world of femininity and celebrating the spectrum of feminine expression using Jungian analyst and psychiatrist, Jean Shinoda Bolen’s framework for the 7 feminine archetypes. In this episode we: Define the 7 feminine archetypes— key trai…

Have you ever contemplated what life would be like without the familiar hum of alcohol in the background? As Dry January unfolds, we’re discussing the growing sober curious movement and shedding light on the benefits that reach far beyond a hangover-free morning. From mental clarity to rediscovering your true self, we’re unpacking the potential of …

How often do you find yourself dwelling on someone else's opinion? Ever wondered why it's so challenging to brush off criticism? What if you could unlock the secret to these common questions? If you’re ready to liberate yourself from the trap of taking things personally and reclaim your inner peace, this episode is for you! In this episode we: Iden…

What does it take to truly reinvent yourself and begin a new era of life?? As we step into the fresh canvas of 2024, the idea of entering a new era isn’t just a catchphrase; it’s a commitment to your personal evolution! If you’re ready to jumpstart your journey towards a refreshed and reimagined version of yourself, this episode is for you! In this…

As we prepare to come back from our break we thought we’d give y’all a sneak peek of what you’re missing over at the Homegirl Hangout. Enjoy this Bravado Bonus! Are you tired of the strong black woman narrative? Resilience Resentment is a pushback to those toxic nudges that encourage us to conquer our emotions and be unwavering under stress and dif…

The girls are on break but we’re taking this time to bump a few of our favorite and most valuable episodes to the top of your feed. This one is a goodie and a must listen before the year ends! Are you tired of making resolutions that don’t stick? What about trying to create new healthy habits to only look up and realize you’ve fallen back into your…

We’re taking the last few weeks of the year to revisit a few of our favorite and most impactful episodes. We invite you to ease into the new year considering what you can do to make it the best one yet; and we’re sure episodes like this one will help you do just that! Have you ever felt like you have so many things to do and EVERYTHING is a priorit…

A lot happened this year, so of course we need to chat about it! It’s time to reflect on all we’ve learned, the goals we’ve achieved (and didn’t lol), and how we’re looking forward to becoming the best versions of ourselves in 2024! In this episode we discuss: What we discovered about ourselves this year that was previously unknown How the people a…

Have you ever felt trapped in repeating patterns that seem to hold you back from reaching your full potential? Today we’re discussing the intricate art of releasing patterns that hinder us from being our best selves. If you’re ready to overcome self-limiting beliefs or shed repetitive cycles, today’s episode is for you! In this episode we discuss: …