Your co-hosts, Paul & Shimina, take you through an introspective, educational, and entertaining journey through various conversations surrounding personal and professional success. Our podcast focuses on how to be a "boss," not just in the work place, but in life, relationships, and society; and through the lens of being a queer person of color (QPOC). Episodes are published bi-weekly. Our August Head Boss of the Month goes to Kid Fury & Crissle West of The Read!
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RADIO REPLAY: Defining What We're Meant To Do
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Can you believe it's been TWO YEARS since we started this show, with a whopping 53 episodes?! In honor of our two year anniversary, and this much needed break (check our social media announcement for more on that), we will continue our bi-weekly Tuesday production schedule by replaying some of our former episodes. We hope to continue engaging new f…
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How the Hell Have You Not Been Fired Yet?
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Have you ever stared at a coworker of yours, thinking “how the hell have you not been fired yet?” Shimina and Paul discuss their experiences and strategies on how to handle employees who are holding back the growth of oneself and/or the organization. Sometimes these folks are fully aware of the “bad Koolaid” they are making, while others do not rea…
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Superstitions.... where do they come from? Paul & Shimina do a deep dive into the topic with a help from this article in Essence Magazine: https://www.essence.com/holidays/black-history-month/black-superstitions-traditions-origins/ Note: We experienced technical difficulties with this week’s episode. So the first 10ish minutes of Water Cooler Talk …
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Ooooweee! Paul & Shimina have been through it! But in a good way, actually. Your co-hosts are in the thick of it… the crossroads at which one questions their personal decisions and life’s actions, but strangely enough, life is questioning those same decisions and actions for us. No topic for this one… we just ride the wave and freestyle from our he…
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It’s been a while, but we’re also pressed for time. So we are calling a brief stand up meeting to order! This week’s topic is on life transitions---when do you know it’s the right time to move on to the next opportunity, or event? And more importantly what internal or external resources are necessary to make these transitions? Are there certain tra…
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Everything Is Love (feat. The Carters & Maiya Lanae)
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Psyche! Beyonce and Jay-Z are not this week’s guests on HBIC (I know, it’s devastating, but they’re on tour right now), but we are sharing the mic with our friend, colleague, and renaissance woman, Maiya Lanae! Paul could not help but think how appropriately aligned the content of The Carters’ debut joint project, “Everything is the Love,” was in c…
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More Money, Less Problems (feat. Karyne Levy)
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Paul & Shimina share hosting duties with Karyne Levy! Karyne has 18 years of professional experience in journalism, focusing on content writing/editing/designing for companies such as CNET, NerdWallet, and Scribd. She also hosts a podcast with her wife, called The Gayest Show on Birth, where they share their IVF journey in real-time, as they await …
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Black Women in Tech (feat. Adanta Ahanonu)
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In this week’s episode, we invite a guest to the show… Adanta Ahanonu! Adanta is a young professional in both the tech industry and non-profit sector, with approx. 10 years of experience in management, leadership, and program development. Adanta recently moved to the Bay Area to launch and direct a new branch for her organization, Year Up, which is…
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Considering the recent trending news regarding people calling the police on black people, Paul and Shimina delve into a discussion on implicit bias. What are the causes behind snap judgements? How do you, as an employee, protect and defend yourself from snap judgements in the workplace? And what are solutions and methods to creating a culture that …
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Emails… can’t live with ‘em, and can’t live without ‘em! Shimina references an article that talks about the benefits of setting parameters around sending/responding to emails in an office culture. What would happen in your office if everyone stopped sending emails after hours? Paul and Shimina discuss their qualms around email culture, and new appr…
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My “Yes,” means Yes, and my “No,” means No!
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Paul brings up the topic of people trusting or not trusting one for their word, and the layers behind how we build trust with an individual. Where does that trust come from? Why does one person’s opinion have more weight than another’s? And of course, how is someone’s word perceived simply based on their position at work, their race, gender, or sex…
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Paul and Shimina continue their discussion on the book, “The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom” by Don Miguel Ruiz. The last two agreements are, (3) Don’t make assumptions; and (4) Always do your best. In addition, your co-hosts talk Sterling K. Brown, Betsy Devos, explosions in Texas, and the HBO show, “Here and Now.”Betsy Dev…
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Paul and Shimina reflect on Marvel’s Black Panther movie! They also discuss the Scandal-How to Get Away with Murder crossover, life after retirement, and some bullshit going on in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. How to Get Away with Scandal - http://variety.com/2018/tv/news/scandal-how-to-get-away-with-murder-crossover-ratings-1202715953/Life After Retirem…
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This week, Shimina brings up a book called, “The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom” by Don Miguel Ruiz. In Part 1 of this two-part series, we take an indepth look at the first two agreements: (1) Being impeccable with your word, and (2) Don’t take anything personally. Also this week, Paul & Shimina discuss “fake news” on the Bl…
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Things I’m Not Here For… #HappyBlackHistoryMonth
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First off, Happy Black History Month. While they celebrate all things black and black-ish, Shimina and Paul take the time to explain things they are not here for any longer. It’s 2018, and it’s time to moooooove forward!Rose McGowan interviews with ABC’s Juju Changhttp://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/rose-mcgowan-alyssa-milano-meryl-streep-thoughts-…
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Paul and Shimina are bosses who LOVE to travel. Take a listen, as your co-hosts share where they travel, their experiences, and various tips and tricks.Ellen Pompeo, TV’s highest paid womanhttps://www.hollywoodreporter.com/features/ellen-pompeo-tvs-20-million-woman-reveals-her-behind-scenes-fight-what-i-deserve-1074978 2018 Oscar Nominationshttp://…
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Self-Preservation in a Toxic Work Environment
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Paul and Shimina discuss the inevitable toxicity that seeps into office/work environments. How does one respond to toxic actions in the workplace? And what methods can one use to preserve themselves in a toxic wasteland? Your co-hosts share their experiences and opinions.Mary J. Blige - Hollywood Walk of Fame - https://www.bet.com/music/2018/01/05/…
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Paul and Shimina close out the year by focusing on what’s ahead. Let’s be honest… despite having some well-deserved, celebratory moments and achievements, 2017 still gave us a run for our money. Your co-hosts look forward, and begin paving their vision for the year ahead. Paul and Shimina play more reindeer games by picking only ONE celebrity to go…
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Paul has been intrigued by scientology, specifically through Leah Remini’s A&E show and the HBO documentary, “Going Clear.” It is said that people fall into scientology due to their desire to be a better person; however, scientology seems to take the concept of “self help” or self improvement to a detrimental level. Paul and Shimina explore the con…
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In honor of Thanksgiving, Paul and Shimina take a trip down memory lane and share their unique school experiences.Serena Williams and Alexis Ohanian Get Marriedhttps://www.essence.com/news/serena-williams-and-alexis-ohanian-marry-weddingAfrican Americans Don’t Sleep as Well as Whites, an inequality stretching back to slaveryhttp://www.latimes.com/o…
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Paul & Shimina take a shallow dive into respectability politics--a social phenomena that allows people to approve or disapprove the actions or behaviors of a member within a community based on personal biases or anticipated negative reactions from society to said behaviors. How does respectability politics play out at work and in your personal life…
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Do things ever get too much in life, to the point where you numb your emotions to get through the day? Paul & Shimina talk about the idea of numbing and its effects on the self and our relationship with others--be it at work or in our personal lives. Your co-hosts also play a fun game called, “Dinner, Drinks, Bar fight!” Listen, and play along with…
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Stay in your lane… stop swerving! Have you encountered experiences in your professional and personal life, when people take the liberty to swerve in your lane? Shimina and Paul define this concept in their lives, provide examples, and potential solutions on how to respond to habitual lane crossers. Your co-hosts also play a fun game called, “For th…
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Do you ever feel limited by the English language? Are you able to find the words that exactly define how you feel? Human emotions and experiences are expansive, and they sometimes take more than one English word to explain such emotions. Research shows that defining our feelings can help us better regulate our emotions and weaken negative emotions,…
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Paul & Shimina celebrate their one-year anniversary (30 episodes) since starting Head Boss In Charge. Celebrate, laugh, and reflect as they honor today’s episode by discussing key pop culture moments since the year 2000, but in the context of where they were in their lives, how they responded, and how those moments personally influenced them, and t…
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This week Paul and Shimina discuss making mistakes at work, and how we recover from them. Your co-hosts explore mistakes in the context of their professional careers--both clerical and political--both big and small.Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits:…
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People of color often get mislabeled as being intimidating. What does that even mean? Where does that come from? Paul and Shimina explore how intimidation precipitates in the workplace. They also discuss how certain traits may appear as intimidating, when more often than not, these traits are considered positive attributes in a leader. The followin…
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“Fear of missing out” (aka FOMO): the pressure to participate in all events, consume all types of media, or be in proximity of all experiences in order to feel a sense of fulfillment. This feeling is real! Paul and Shimina discuss the many shapes of FOMO and analyze how it may affect both the professional and personal life.Follow us on Facebook (He…
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Therapy is often a taboo topic within the black community and various other racial groups. However, we feel that people are gradually feeling more comfortable in going to therapy and sharing their experiences. Paul and Shimina discuss the various perceptions of therapy, as well as obstacles, realizations, and the benefits. Follow us on Facebook (He…
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This week Paul and Shimina provide words of wisdom to their “colleagues” based on personal situations and experiences that are either recurring or one-offs throughout their professional lives. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits:"Bossy" by Kelis (feat…
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Stand-up meeting time! As managers, Shimina & Paul interview people all the time. As it’s interview season, your co-hosts share their professional opinions on interview etiquette--from the standpoint of both the candidate and the employer.Por Paul & Shimina
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Shimina explores the various factors that hold us back from making decisions or moves in our life that actually may be for the better. Factors include fear, lack of planning, making ends meet, criticism, confidence, and social constructs such as race and sexuality. Bill Maher apologizes on 'Real Time' over using racial slur: 'I did a bad thing' - h…
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Paul brings Shimina into a fun conversation regarding what makes us hot and bothered. This week, you’ll learn some common and maybe not-so-common things that are on our list of pet peeves--from interaction with society, to social media, airport culture, dating, and public transportation. Robert Caro Wonders What New York Is Going To Become - http:/…
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Shimina brings up the topic of “emotional tax”--the weight of obligation that black people, and other minority groups, carry in order to be successful in the workplace. This mindset and level of consciousness is not a choice, but rather a way of living that other folks do not have to worry about. This weight sometimes translates into poor mental, e…
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TLC said it first… what about your friends? Paul & Shimina kick back and talk about friendship etiquette or rather “friendiquette.” They even reflect on their own attributes, both strengths and weaknesses, as it relates to their personal roles in friendships or group environments. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPo…
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What’s Up With Millennials?This week, Paul & Shimina reflect on an interview with Simon Sinek (@simonsinek), where he gives us a fascinating view on Millennials in the workplace. Tangentially related topics include the generational divide, parenting, instant gratification, depression, technology, and empathy.Simon Sinek on Millennials in the Workpl…
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How is professionalism defined in your industry? Paul & Shimina discuss professionalism and office culture. They also share their frank opinions on what’s considered unprofessional in the workplace.White man kills black man NYC - http://nbcnews.to/2okYYzhDemocrats introduce MARALAGO Act - http://thehill.com/blogs/floor-action/senate/325651-dems-int…
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This week Paul and Shimina discuss when to walk away from situations or experiences that need to end. One of the most powerful things we own as human beings is the power of choice. Your co-hosts even take some time to convey experiences that they need to walk away from currently. Checkout Tami Roman’s @OfficialBonnetChronicles Instagram rant on Ben…
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Wisdom from a True VP (feat. Dynasti Hunt)
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Our friend and head boss, Dynasti Hunt, takes the mic to share aspects of her career and advice as a Vice President of Human Resources. You can follow Dynasti on Twitter (@dynasti.hunt) and LinkedIn (linkedin.com/in/dynastihunt/). Also, check out her new leadership blog barraisedleaders.com, and get more resume building tips from her other website …
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Making the Next Step (feat. Rosalind Cohen-Baruch)
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Paul and Shimina do something different this week! For the first time, we invite a guest to our show. Our colleague and head boss, Rosalind Cohen-Baruch, joins us to discuss her versatile career and transition from the non-profit education sector to the private sector, as a human resources professional. You can follow her on Twitter (@RosalindCB) a…
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Shimina introduces us to Jim Collin’s book, “Good to Great.” We dive deep into one of the book’s powerful metaphors about being on the right bus, as it relates to one’s professional career path. This is one of our favorite episodes to date!Checkout the book, “Good to Great” by Jim Collins - http://www.jimcollins.com/books.html Listen to the music o…
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An impromptu stand-up meeting is an order! Have you seen “Hidden Figures” starring Teraji P. Henson, Octavia Spencer, and Janelle Monae? If not, then you should. If you have, then watch it again! This fantastic, Golden Globe-winning, and Oscar-nominated film has been taking over social media by storm! Because this movie praises the achievements of …
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A topic that’s been discussed many times, but ever-evolving based on current social trends and standards: Code switching is an act and phenomenon that manifests itself in the workplace, family interactions, and friend groups. Paul & Shimina take a stab at the topic as it relates to their personal experiences. Check out our friends at Minority Korne…
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Paul and Shimina ring in the new year by launching into a discussion on goal-setting. In this episode, the HBIC duo talks about establishing and evaluating their goals in and out of the workplace. Paul and Shimina also share their process of reflection in creating their goals, and why it’s important for them to do so periodically. On a different no…
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The Apple Doesn't Fall Far From the Tree
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As we are in the midsts of the holiday season, Paul & Shimina give a homage to their moms! Although we are our own people and make our own decisions, do we inevitably pick up our parents' personalities, traits, and habits? These bosses take a look at how their parents' behaviors and mentalities take form in their everyday lives.Follow us on Faceboo…
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Time for another stand-up meeting! When it comes to online conversations, it’s really easy for people to talk the talk, but not walk the walk. Paul & Shimina take a minute to discuss the pros and cons of using social media for meaningful (or unmeaningful) conversations, especially within a socially political context. More importantly, they give the…
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Paul & Shimina share their views on human flaws. Flaws are the very things we focus on to improve ourselves, but can we get rid of all of them? Are all flaws bad? Paul & Shimina also explore some of their personal flaws. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Cr…
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Shimina has more to say on Cheeto Elect’s win. Paul has no time for basicness (aka mediocrity). We find that we constantly have to move through a work and social environment where mediocrity is not an option, in order to be successful and debunk stereotypes associated with our multiple identities. It’s unfortunate that we live in a world where peop…
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A lot of news has been going on in the past week after the announcement of the next POTUS. We have too much to get off our chests and it couldn’t wait for the next episode. So it’s time for a stand-up meeting (a SUP meeting)...Por Paul & Shimina
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The Defiance of Putting Myself First
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Paul and Shimina take an in-depth look at the pros and cons to putting ourselves first in an environment that constantly pressures us to challenge that priority. Are we truly selfish when putting ourselves first, or are we actually benefiting those around us when we put our needs before others?#AirbnbWhileBlack: How Hidden Bias Shapes The Sharing E…
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