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Parenting advice on-the-go, with fun episodes that will make you laugh, cry, and feel better armed to be the parent you want to be! No punishments, rewards, or ultimatums required. (they’re actually discouraged). Join your host Andee Martineau, founder of the breakthrough parenting framework Connect Method Parenting, as she helps parents discover why their kids don’t listen and shows them the step-by-step process of regaining influence and building relationships that will last a lifetime!
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I remember my toddlers trying to put on their shoes backward over and over again. They wanted me to watch but NOT help them. Today I started thinking about those crazy years when I had six kids eight and under, and a thought popped into my mind, "Your kids are figuring out the world one backward shoe at a time, and they need you to be there, really…
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Happy Wednesday! Today, we conclude the 3 Vital Parenting Decisions Series. If you haven’t listened to the episodes from Monday and Tuesday, check those out first because they lay the groundwork for today’s discussion. Today's Focus: Practicing extreme self-compassion. It’s essential. My coach emphasized the importance of being gentle and loving to…
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Welcome back to day two of the Connect Method Parenting workshop - 3 Vital Decisions! If you listened yesterday, you’ll remember we introduced the concept of stopping the negative energizing of off-track behavior. Today, we build on that foundation with the second decision: committing to using connection as your primary parenting tool. Stop Negativ…
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Hey Friend! Welcome to the replay of a live workshop called 3 Vital Decisions. Over the next three days, (yep we're replaying them all this week) we'll explore three vital decisions you'll have to make if you want to transition from corrective to connective parenting. AND I'll give you an actionable challenge to go do with your kids today. Because …
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Throughout this book, we've been chatting about a Connect Method Parenting way of interacting with your kids. I've broken down the CMP philosophy page by page. Now it's time to break down the process. How you do Connect Method Parenting in real life. The tool I'm about to teach you is called Seen and Heard. Think of it like a sandwich. Next Steps: …
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Ever wondered why, despite your best intentions, you sometimes fail to take action toward your parenting goals? In today's episode, we're exploring the perplexing gap between our aspirations and actions. I'm sharing personal stories and practical strategies to help you stay calm, confident, and connected with your children. Learn how to harness the…
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Behavior is your child’s way of communicating with you. You’ve come up with stories about their messy room, refusal to do homework, and skipping out on family dishes. But your stories are wrong. What?! In this episode, we're diving into Chapter 9 of my book Behavior Is Information! Next Steps: >> Get a FREE copy of my book and sign up for the CMP B…
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When we fear and resist negative emotions, we suffer. And when we have compassion for it and allow it, we grow and thrive. Welcome to the Connect Method Parenting podcast, where correction is out, connection is in, and your kids want to listen to you. In this episode, we're diving into an insightful coaching call replay from a year ago. Join me as …
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🎧 Dive into Chapter Eight: "Emotions are the Fuel," where I spill the tea on harnessing your emotions to supercharge your parenting game. 🌈 Ever feel like you’re drowning in frustration? I’ve got you covered. Learn to switch from "I am frustrated" to "I have frustration," and watch your relationship with yourself and your kids transform. 🗣️💭 And th…
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Do you find yourself tangled up in trying to control your kids? Wishing they would listen more, complain less, and for goodness sake go to bed on time?! But no matter what you try it feels like a losing battle?! You're not alone, and there’s a better way! In this episode, we’re diving into the art of focusing on what you can actually control as par…
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There are five ingredients you'll need to create the life you want. Situations Thoughts Feelings Actions Results Your job is to understand how each of these works. Then, put them together intentionally. Don’t complicate it. What thoughts are you thinking? What emotions are you feeling? What actions are you taking or not taking? That is why you have…
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Prepare for a soul-stirring episode of Connect Method Parenting. 🤯 Today, we delve into a topic that resonates at the core of many belief systems: the concept of anger and judgment as portrayed in the scriptures, and how it aligns with the principles of Connect Method Parenting. 📖✨ Joining us is the insightful Natalie Hunsaker, a mom of four, a tal…
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We're back with the next chapter in our 15-part CMP Book Club series, and today it's all about Chapter Six: "STEAR Your Own Boat." 📖 Get ready for a laugh with my "Baby Powder Blizzard" story – it's a whirlwind of chaos turned into a moment of clarity. 🌨️ I'll show you how to pause, take a breath, and choose responses that reflect the parent you st…
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Are you caught in the digital web of constant scrolling and screen time? 📱 In today's episode of Connect Method Parenting, we're diving deep into the heart of our relationship with technology and its impact on family dynamics. We're joined by Joey, a passionate advocate for helping families reclaim their time from the digital grasp and foster meani…
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Connect Method Parenting is the art of subtraction and addition in your parenting journey. 🌱 By subtracting control, correction, comparison, and the need to fix, we make room for what truly matters: unconditional love, acceptance, trust, and the freedom to experience all emotions. 🤗❤️ This is not about spoiling our children, but about filling them …
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It's no secret that CMP believes: Everyone is 100% loveable. ❤️ Accepting 🙌 without condoning is totally a thing. Love is not just an emotion but a 🛠️ skill that benefits both the giver and the receiver. Difficult conversations 📣 are inevitable and a rewarding process. Loving without conditions is the 💡 way to go. In today's 🎙️ episode, we're chatt…
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Ever caught yourself expecting perfection from your kids, only to realize you're holding them to a standard you can't even meet? In this episode of the CMP Book Club, we delve into the heart of empathetic parenting with a powerful reminder: our children mirror our behaviors, and kindness starts with us. Next Steps: >> Get a FREE copy of my book and…
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Chapters 0:00 Parental Excuses 0:27 Reasonable Parental Excuses 1:36 The Pattern of Parental Excuses 1:58 Different Moral Standards for Adults and Children 2:38 Parents' Responsibilities vs. Children's Chores 4:17 Absolutes in Parenting Situations 4:53 Examples of Parental Excuses 10:26 Moving Forward Excuse 12:09 Threatening with Parental Authorit…
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Do you feel overwhelmed by the emotional highs and lows of parenting? That used to be my story. That's why when Tori started sharing the emotional breakthroughs she was having because of CMP I knew I had to have her on the podcast! Learning how to process, feel, and regulate our emotions is critical if we want to show up as the connected parent we …
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Stefan Molyneux emphasizes the need for trauma-informed care and therapy to address the health effects of childhood abuse. 2024, Stefan Molyneux Peaceful Parenting https://www.freedomain.com/donate Brief Summary Stefan Molyneux discusses the profound impacts of childhood abuse on health, highlighting the correlation between adverse childhood experi…
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Peaceful Parenting Part 24 "Peaceful Parenting" explores childhood abuse's impact on cognitive development and mental health, covering brain regions, intergenerational trauma, DNA methylation, disorders, obesity, spanking, adverse experiences, divorce effects, and empathy. Full Feed: https://rss.com/podcasts/peacefulparenting Audio: https://cdn.fre…
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Stefan Molyneux explores the silent devastation of child neglect in "The Soul Denied and Rejected," emphasizing the urgent need for prevention strategies to address its profound impact on children. 2024, Stefan Molyneux https://www.freedomain.com/donate Brief Summary Stefan Molyneux discusses the profound impact of neglect on children in "The Soul …
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Hey there, welcome back to the CMP Book Club! Today, we're diving into Chapter 3: "Nothing Has Gone Wrong Here." I'm excited to tackle a common myth about parenting - the idea that good parenting is all about having perfectly behaved kids. Let's unpack why your child's meltdowns are actually important milestones, not a measure of your parenting ski…
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Chapters 0:00 Global Prevalence of Child Abuse 3:38 Impact of COVID-19 Lockdowns on Child Abuse 8:37 Insidious Changes and Long-term Effects of Lockdowns 10:43 The Bomb in the Brain 13:14 Adverse Childhood Experiences: ACE Study Introduction 15:45 Underreporting of Childhood Physical Abuse 20:10 Prevalence of Adverse Childhood Experiences 26:41 Hea…
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Drop the green juice, call a friend, and tune in for a game-changing episode! Michelle, fresh from the 8-Week Parenting Pivot, spills the tea on her parenting transformation. Swapping discipline for connection, she witnessed incredible shifts in her family dynamics. Michelle's story isn't just inspiring—it's a total game-changer in the parenting pl…
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The "baby powder blizzard of 2007," was a pivotal moment that changed the trajectory of my parenting. I decided to abandon traditional disciplinary methods and began challenging the notion that discipline is the essence of parenting. Drawing from developmental psychology and attachment theory, I eventually discovered the five steps to transition fr…
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In today's episode, we're peeling back the curtain on one family's transformative journey with Connect Method Parenting (CMP). Emily, a dedicated mom of four adopted children, opens up about her path to connection, revealing the real, raw, and unfiltered experiences that have reshaped her parenting approach. As a teacher turned full-time mom, Emily…
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Ever felt like you were thrown into the deep end of parenting without so much as a “how-to” YouTube video? Today on the Pod, we're tossing out the old parenting playbook of timeouts and gold stars and diving into something truly revolutionary – Connect Method Parenting. Parenting can feel like getting ready to set sail only to realize your GPS is s…
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Shownotes 0:00 Introduction to Peaceful Parenting 2:30 Philosophical Perspectives on Morality 3:47 Rethinking Punishment and Discipline 5:38 Teaching by Example 6:58 Hypocrisy and Violence in Parenting 7:34 Moral Instruction: Be Like Me 10:21 Modeling Behavior for Children 15:34 Advocating for Peaceful Parenting 16:37 The Syllogisms of Peaceful Par…
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🔥 “CMP is the only thing that has actually worked, and I’ve tried everything. I had read over 40 parenting books when I found Connect Method Parenting.” -Mary Today, we’re sliding into your earbuds with a story that will make you rethink everything you thought was set in stone about wrangling your kiddos. Enter Mary. Six kids deep, including two se…
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Let's dig into the liberating truth that we can craft the future with our children, free from the chains of bygone days. This episode is not just about listening—it's about action. Andee unveils the three core strategies of Connect Method Parenting that guarantee results when applied consistently. She delves into the importance of safety, unconditi…
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Today, we're diving deep into a tricky topic: off-track behavior. But don't worry, we're not talking about rules and punishments. Nope, we’re talking about how to handle these off-track moments with style and understanding! Andee shows us how to turn those "What on earth?!" moments into chances for connection, growth, and better listening. Get read…
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Chapters 0:00 Introduction to Empathy 1:34 Understanding Emotions 2:51 The Role of Empathy in Relationships 3:46 The Power of Forgiveness 5:12 Consequences of Endless Forgiveness 6:33 Manipulation through Verbal Abuse 8:41 The Dynamics of Abuse Excusers 12:18 Enlisting Co-Abusers 13:42 The Role of Older Siblings 16:42 The Pressure to Appease 20:12 …
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Do you ever feel like there aren't enough minutes in the day to connect with your kids? Or lament that you're not making the most of the time you DO have with your kids? What if your focus on how you're unable to create the relationships you want with your kids is the very thing getting in the way of creating the dreamy relationships you so despera…
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One of the great paradoxes of parenting is learning how to be both firm and compassionate. Andee calls it the middle way of parenting. Seems kind of impossible but once you’re there it feels like coming home. Parenting Sovereignty opens up the possibility of showing up emotionally neutral regardless of how off-track their behavior is. Tapping into …
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Today’s episode is part two of a LIVE coaching series. In Episode 25, you were able to listen to a CMP coaching call I had with my amazing client, Jessica. A few months after that coaching session, we jumped on a call to document her incredible wins and progress. Now you get to be a fly on the wall and witness the process of implementing CMP in act…
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Do you ever feel like no matter what you try the kids won't do their chores? Or lament that if you were a better mom then they'd happily keep their room clean? What if your fixation on getting the kids to do their chores is the wrong fixation to have?! I'm fairly certain it is! If you can relate, I invite you to pull up a seat and listen in on this…
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https://dai.ly/k4pEjHovef5w0yA6TPg https://cdn.freedomainradio.com/PP/FDR_PP_18.mp3 The episode explores child abuse cycles and the importance of recognizing, preventing, and breaking free from abusive behaviors. It highlights neglect's lasting effects on well-being and advocates for social support and therapy for healing. Brief Summary In this epi…
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Hey friends! TGIW and time for a new episode! Leave the to-do list for later, because nothing packs a connective punch like dropping these three parenting mishaps that often fly under the radar. Once you see them you can't unsee them, and once you see them you're gonna want to stop doing them ASAP. Homework: At the top of a blank sheet of paper wri…
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Feel like your old self is tripping you up? Trust me, you're not the only one tangled up in doubt, confusion, and regretful thoughts from the past. Recently, a client asked Andee how she could have more self-confidence and let go of thoughts like 'I'm not enough for my kids' and 'I can't figure this out.' Both left her feeling uncertain, deficient,…
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One of the great ironies is that while we deeply desire transformation in our parenting (better relationships, more cooperation and patience) we think the way to do it is to be hard on ourselves. In this episode, we debunk the myth that a failure to change is a failure of motivation and willpower. Turns out you don't have a week will, you just have…
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https://cdn.freedomainradio.com/PP/FDR_PP_17.mp3 https://dai.ly/k2MoIHGZK61FKOzWyOi This episode explores peaceful parenting, the drawbacks of physical punishment on children, understanding evildoers, and the cycle of justification. It emphasizes prevention over cure and advocates for virtuous parenting practices. 2024, Stefan Molyneux Peaceful Par…
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Put down the green juice and call your friend. Nothing packs a wellness punch like improving your ability to regulate your nervous system. In today's episode of Connect Method Parenting we're digging into why regulating your nervous system will up level your parenting in surprising and connecting ways. You're getting a sneak peak of a class I taugh…
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January is a time when you may be considering the changes you want to make this year and what you're going to do to hit your parenting goals. You might be considering ways to improve your relationships with your kids, increase cooperation, and create more peace in your home. If so then this is the episode for you. Last week I taught Parent Camp & T…
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Are your kids' emotional outbursts driving you nuts? WHEN those BIG emotions are processed and fully felt, they become the engine to your child's maturation. Translation...when you help them feel their emotions they become less emotionally volatile. Sound backward? Let me break it down for you. In this week's episode, we’re dissecting the 50/50 Emo…
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Video: https://www.dailymotion.com/video/kTfNzwnxdG0ic1zS7g6 Part 16 Restitution in parenting: honesty, accountability, and confronting child abuse. Challenging abusers' conscience, advocating for consequences and support for victims. 2024, Stefan Molyneux Peaceful Parenting https://www.freedomain.com/donate Brief Summary In this episode, we explor…
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Want to create a better relationship with your kids?! In today’s episode, we’re navigating the terrain of relationships in the context of parenting. I'm cracking open the misconception that two people feeling good is the key to healthy relationships. Tune in for a clever exploration that might just change the way you think about your relationship w…
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Did you know there's a set of parenting tools we've inherited from society that don't create deep connection and trust with our kids? I'm sharing an episode that was originally aired on the Love Your Mom Life Podcast. Join me as Nikki and I explore what those tools are and what to do instead. Next Steps: >> Get a FREE copy of my book and sign up fo…
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Brief Summary In this episode, we explore peaceful parenting and the impact of childhood experiences on our perspective. We discuss the importance of literature, reflect on the Scared Straight program, and emphasize the need for genuine apologies in parenting. We stress the significance of moral knowledge and highlight the importance of trust and t…
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