A podcast about gender, identity, orientation, and all the life that happens around them! George is an FtM transgender man, Jess is his pansexual genderqueer wife; they talk parenting, work, and such.
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Unapologetically Me: Ian White, Life Fulfillment Coach | Transition to Meaningful Work | Career Change | Motivation | Inspiration | Alignment | Life Purpose | Fulfillment
Unapologetically Me: Ian White, Life Fulfillment Coach | Transition to Meaningful Work | Career Change | Motivation | Inspiration | Alignment | Life Purpose | Fulfillment
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Labour rights of young people in Armenia and transition to work / ՀՀ-ում երիտասարդների աշխատանքային իրավունքները և անցումը դեպի աշխատաշուկա
EU4Youth
(Armenian version is below) Young people are innovative, alert and eager to learn in different contexts, both formal and informal, attracted as they are by the newest sources of information through digital communication, social media and the internet. Their development as citizens and professionals deserves the highest priority in state policies and investment. In EaP countries, youth transition from school to work is challenging, owing to economic conditions (low demand, low levels of job c ...
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Labour rights of young people in Azerbaijan and transition to work / Azərbaycanda gənclərin əmək hüquqları və əmək fəaliyyətinə keçidi
EU4Youth
(Azerbaijani version is below) Young people are innovative, alert and eager to learn in different contexts, both formal and informal, attracted as they are by the newest sources of information through digital communication, social media and the internet. Their development as citizens and professionals deserves the highest priority in state policies and investment. In EaP countries, youth transition from school to work is challenging, owing to economic conditions (low demand, low levels of jo ...
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TPT#419 - The Usual String of Swear Words
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In the interest of finding George more queer social time, we went to Folsom Street Fair and Salt Lake City, and yes we have recovered from the whiplash. Then we hosted the queers to help a friend with a construction project. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you c…
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TPT#418 - I Wanted It Fixed For Everybody
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One recurring theme in the ten year's we've been in your ears has been the recurring difficulties accessing testosterone. These difficulties are familiar to most trans folks on any form of HRT, and now George has been struggling to also access mental health treatment meds after an insurance snafu. We are here to share our entire intersectional expe…
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When George got to Child#2's IEP meeting, in addition to doing the parenty thing, he also got to be "the dude who shut down the other dude". We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous su…
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TPT#416 - The Health Department For Cats
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Bob the dog is the only pet we intend to ever own again, but Child #3 wanted help keeping her cat when her other dad wasn't able to keep it anymore. We were willing to help, but only so far. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let …
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TPT#415 - Their Approach Was More Welcoming
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After bringing Child#2 home from Alaska, getting him back into the routines of daily life, school, and preparations for adulting, have been a challenge. But we went to pride and George found some resources that might help with the adulting part. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we wa…
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TPT#414 - Doesn't Often Work For Me But It's My Motto
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After many months of shortage, George's testosterone prescription has finally begun refilling again. After many months of waiting for his endocrinologist to finish his move to a new practice, he has finally made contact and had an appointment. After many hours on the phone with doctor's offices, with insurance reps, with pension program insurance l…
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We went back to Alaska to pick up Child#2, and took our own little vacation along the way, stopping in Seattle first. But of course, nothing ever goes to plan around here, so in addition to George having a date and Jess getting to see a friend, we also had to do long-distance parenting and kid-transit troubleshooting. We are here to share our entir…
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TPT#412 - Just To Be Around All The Other Queers (Alaska Kid Trip, Pt. 2)
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Once George and Vinnie got Child#2 to his adult brother's village in Alaska, you would think the challenges would settle down some. You'd be wrong, but they did find queers, so that was better, maybe? We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. Yo…
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TPT#411 - There's Nothing In This Area (Alaska Kid Trip, Pt. 1)
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Child#2's brother has been half-asking, half-planning, half-assing an attempt at a visit for a long while, so finally George and Cousin Vinnie decided to just make it happen. The efforts to plan and to communicate with said brother and family were mildly challenging and mildly amusing. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with …
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George has recruited Cousin Vinnie to help take Child#2 to visit the boy's adult half-brother, while Jess is having lots of social time both with and without George, and we all are having our challenges interacting with the allocishets. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to kno…
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George recounts the experience of traveling to, and recovering from, his fourth surgery. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374. If you have a re…
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TPT#408 - I Didn't Know That Trick! (Preparing For Fourth Surgery, Pt. 2)
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We get into the actual medical preparations for George's upcoming surgery, and then run away from home for a weekend to try to enjoy ourselves with fewer responsibilities for a couple days. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let u…
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TPT#407 - Hoping This Will Be Functional (Preparing For Fourth Surgery, Pt.1)
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While G is preparing to leave for surgery, once again, we are making sure to prepare, as much as possible, everything for which he is responsible. This means managing a kid, an aunt, and various doctor appointments for the both of us. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know …
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TPT#406 - Secret Gas Station With A Petting Zoo
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George wanted to take Child#2 on a spring break road trip, and Cousin Vinnie needed to get out of town to escape work for a while, so they took George's car and visited some fish, George's metamour, and Death Valley. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect w…
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George's endocrinologist is changing offices, Child#2 needs various healthcare documentation to prepare for disabled adulthood, and Jess is trying to access endocrinology services at the gender clinic, all while we attempt to get ready for George's next stage of surgery. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who find…
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TPT#404 - I Was Just Seeing You (Queer Life Story, Pt. 2)
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It's been a while since we discussed our respective upbringings and the experiences in our earlier lives that led to who we are now, so today we started reviewing George's personal history of queerness and transness. This episode contains content from just before high school thru his decision to transition a decade ago, just before we started this …
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TPT#403 - F*cking Gender Weirdness (Queer Life Story, Pt. 1)
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It's been a while since we discussed our respective upbringings and the experiences in our earlier lives that led to who we are now, so today we started reviewing George's personal history of queerness and transness. This episode contains content from his earliest memories until just before high school, and next episode will discuss experiences fro…
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We went to the Star Trek: San Francisco convention, and while we were in the bay area we saw some existing friends and made some new ones. Now we prepare for George to go to his sister's house and spring training, because we're packing in the travel before his next surgery. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who f…
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TPT#401 - Starting To Feel Out Of My Mind
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George and Jess are both having difficulties keeping their hormones regulated, although in completely different ways and with completely different outcomes. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-quest…
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As George's recovery continues, we are finally getting back to enjoying what life we can, planning some non-surgery travel between parenting and work and other responsibilities. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by cl…
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TPT#399 - You Said You Were Excited About My Dick
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As George continues to recover from surgery, as swelling decreases and scars shrink and fade, we discuss how both he and Jess have felt about this process and about his nearly-complete outcomes. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can …
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TPT#398 - How Much Blood The Vampires Took
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As George continued recovering from Sepsis and the most recent stage of his lower surgery, we continued to support the other elements of his physical and mental health. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to…
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TPT#397 - In Bad Shape And I Couldn’t Do It
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When one of George's incisions from (what we had hoped would be) the last stage of his metoidioplasty got infected, it quickly became a bigger problem than expected. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a …
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One of George's incisions got infected, and we hope you'll forgive us if he's too busy recovering to record this week. See you next year!Por George & Jess
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The third stage of George's lower surgery is recovering well so far, meanwhile Jess is home parenting and managing the household, so we recorded from different locations to talk about it. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us …
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As the lower surgery saga progresses, life doesn't quit, and Child#2 has required more of our time and energy than usual. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollco…
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TPT#394 - Topography Of The Gender Map
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When George was preparing for his first stage of surgery, he was contacted by someone whose professional title with the hospital is "Gender Navigator". Over the course of the surgical process, he has appreciated that person's presence, so when they asked for his input and feedback about his process and interactions with the hospital, he was happy t…
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TPT#393 - Emerge Out The Side Of My Body
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We've taken a couple of trips recently, while waiting for George's final stage of surgery. Our travels weren't without complications, as Jess got covid which almost upended one trip, and George got shingles which has postponed his surgery. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to …
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If you're here, you already know that listening to queer podcasts is a good way to connect with queer community when life is busy and time or energy to engage in more active connection are inaccessible. After listening to a recent episode of Gender Reveal, George had some thoughts about his own concept of gender and how it interacts with socially-c…
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TPT#391 - Almost Peed On The Guy Next To Me
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As we continue to wait for the insurance and scheduling for George's last stage of surgery, he's been busy with travel and more travel. Between visiting his sister and visiting Cousin Vinnie, he's had plenty of opportunity for ridiculous gendery nonsense. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial,…
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While George waits for the next stage of his surgery to get scheduled, parenting continues apace, and Child#2 has given us a run for our money the past couple of weeks. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to…
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While George is still recovering from his most recent round of surgery revisions, Child#0 decided to get married and saved the actual planning for the last minute, and Child#2 and Child#3 started back to school. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with t…
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TPT#388 - Where Everything Is Coming Out From
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George got repairs done for his lower surgery, then did hyperbaric treatments to help the repairs stick. Transmasculine lower surgeries typically have more complications than most folks like to talk about, but we're talking anyway, because complications and all, it will have been worth it in the end. We are here to share our entire intersectional e…
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TPT#387 - Pressurizing And Depressurizing
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George's second stage of surgery went better than the first, thanks in large part to following it up with hyperbaric treatment. Disclaimer: Audio quality was a challenge this week. If that becomes a barrier to listening, we won't be offended if you need to skip it and come back next time. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience wi…
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George went back to his surgeon to discuss the complications with his metoidioplasty, and while he was there he got to have a bit of fun with his Cousin Vinnie. Now he may or may not have an appointment for the next stage of surgery, in less than a week, and we're trying not to get too overwhelmed trying to make that work at such short notice. We a…
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As we prepare for Jess to visit their non-nesting partner and George to visit Cousin Vinnie and the Surgeon for metoidioplasty follow-up, children needed to be managed and plans needed to be made for their management. While this is always the case when we both leave town at once, this week we had a number of unexpected changes and challenges. We ar…
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As George prepares to go to his follow-up appointment for his metoidioplasty, we have to manage logistics for managing children and a dog while we're away. While away, he hopes to meet up with some potential romantic connections, but re-learning how to flirt and date with the patriarchy now standing behind him is a bit challenging. We are here to s…
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TPT#383 - Nothing She Hasn’t Seen Before
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George is still struggling with the complications from his metoidioplasty, and sometimes feels as though he is quite literally "coming apart at the seams". So it's time to head back to the doctor and have a look at what else needs to be done, as well as looking forward to the second stage of surgery. We are here to share our entire intersectional e…
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George has finally levelled up and out of employment. Retirement is a huge privilege, so even though accessing it has been an adventure we're still super grateful that it's an option, especially while he's still recovering from the first stage of lower surgery and trying to plan for the next stage. We are here to share our entire intersectional exp…
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Surgery recovery continues, as George has two places where torn stitches are still healing. Meanwhile, parenting has gotten interesting again, because teenagers don't need less parenting, just different parenting. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with…
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TPT#380 - Yoga Peeing (Lower Surgery, Pt. 2)
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George left the hospital after his surgery and we stayed at Cousin Vinnie's for a couple of weeks before attempting to travel. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.p…
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TPT#379 - Now You’re Not Going To Like This, But I’m Going To Tell You (Lower Surgery, Pt. 1)
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We discussed George's metoidioplasty procedure, as well as all the preparation that went into the days before it. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/3…
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TPT#378 - It’s Like Going Blind (The Lawyer Friend Returns, Pt. 2)
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In the second half of our conversation with The Lawyer Friend, we discussed a decade of transition, including coming out, personal safety, male privilege, stealth, dating, and more discussion of surgery. As of the date of publication, George is a few weeks out from surgery and recovering well. We are here to share our entire intersectional experien…
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TPT#377 - I Peed All Over Florida (The Lawyer Friend Returns, Pt. 1)
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In preparation for George's lower surgery, we got our lawyer friend back on the microphone, to talk about the metoidioplasty he had ten years ago, and to talk about dicks in general. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know …
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George finally has a surgery date, and it's coming up far quicker than we expected. While we plan and prepare, we're considering child care, elder care, pet care, and what to tell various members of various social spheres. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you con…
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We spent the weekend at Cousin Vinnie's, and between home improvement projects, we talked about their experiences accessing medical transition and dating a gender therapist. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicki…
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TPT#374 - Transition Of Care (Heart Health & Trans Health, Pt. 2)
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George's heart health continues to get managed, and we finally see some progress on the insurance approval for his lower surgery. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vot…
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TPT#373 - Circuitous At Best (Heart Health & Trans Health, Pt. 1)
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While we wait for the new insurance to process coverage for George's lower surgery, we are insistently reminded that the rest of his health care is important also. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a on…
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TPT#372 - Weird That You Thought Of Us
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As a blended family with varying custody arrangements, we've always had odd scheduling for our holidays. The past few years we had our "Christmas" before the holiday, but this year we had it after. Between that change and our teenagers' increasing maturity and the rest of our family's unique ways of being, the holidays were as much of an adventure …
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As we continue to make slow progress toward George's lower surgery, he continues to amuse himself with other pursuits, including going to a bathhouse, seeing a drag show, meeting his metamour, seeing a drag show, installing a ceiling fan with Cousin Vinnie, and seeing a drag show. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyon…
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