Melhores podcasts sobre Scott Kiloby (2024)

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Before and After Emotional Repression Inquiry 46:09

10h ago46:09

46:09

Scott shares the before and after emotional repression inquiry upon request of listeners. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

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Grandiose Narcissist or Just Hurt and Afraid? 39:11

4d ago39:11

39:11

Scott delves deeply into how grandiose narcissism originates from a foundation of repressed hurt and sadness. Scott discusses the complexities of emotional repression, revealing how these buried feelings shape the grandiose persona often seen as a means to meet unmet childhood needs and maintain a supply of validation from others. Scott outlines th…

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Atomic Resolutions for 2025 47:26

5d ago47:26

47:26

Happy New Year! In this episode, Scott dives into the concept of New Year's resolutions, highlighting their common nature as often short-lived desires for significant life changes. He reflects on how resolutions like losing weight, becoming more connected, or dropping a compulsion can fail to sustain themselves over time. Scott shares insights from…

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Mary’s Christmas - The Greatest Gift We Never Give Ourselves 38:30

7d ago38:30

38:30

In this episode, Scott shares the poignant story of Mary, who grapples with her challenging relationship with Christmas and her father. As Mary buries herself in work to avoid the painful feelings that arise during the holiday season, her hidden suffering begins to manifest as physical ailments, seemingly connected to her unresolved issues with her…

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The Chronicles of Covert Narcissism 43:16

8d ago43:16

43:16

In this episode, Scott delves into covert narcissism in a stream of consciousness manner, illustrating how repression underlies all forms of narcissism, whether diagnosable or not. He emphasizes that each of us must confront this issue and explore whether our narcissistic or ego-driven behaviors stem from the fear of anger, hurt, or sadness. For th…

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The Original Gaslight - Guest Dan McLintock (KI Co-Developer) 1:10:38

11d ago1:10:38

1:10:38

In this episode, Scott invites his very special first guest - the innovative Dan McLintock - Co-Developer of KI. Dan and Scott tackle the concept of the original gaslight: how we often believe we’re being gaslit by others while failing to recognize that we gaslight ourselves due to emotional repression from childhood. They dive deep into how this s…

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Conspiracy Theories - Truth v. Trauma 31:22

13d ago31:22

31:22

In this episode, Scott dives into the intriguing world of conspiracy theories, offering a unique perspective that links the beliefs of their proponents to underlying trauma and buried emotions. He explores how these unprocessed feelings can shape an individual's worldview, causing them to project a reality that is deeply influenced by their past ex…

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A New Dimension of Spiritual Practice 35:44

15d ago35:44

35:44

Join Scott in this episode as he dives into the Three Dimensions of Spiritual Practice developed by KI. Scott explores how these dimensions shape our spiritual journeys, detailing the actions we take—or do not take—in our practices. In the first dimension, we sit in stillness, allowing our thoughts and feelings to arise. In the second dimension, we…

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Resentfully Loving - Hidden Angry Roots of Co-Dependency 21:23

18d ago21:23

21:23

In this episode, Scott explores the intriguing connection between codependent behavior and buried anger, drawing on scientific and academic research to illuminate this vital topic. Many individuals may exhibit seemingly benign behaviors—such as being overly nice, trying to save or fix others, or prioritizing the feelings of those around them—yet th…

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The Many Faces of Emotional Repression 21:06

18d ago21:06

21:06

In this episode, Scott delves into how emotional repression fuels suffering, highlighting how various forms—such as anxiety, depression, chronic pain, and self-limiting beliefs—are often labeled separately. He reveals that they all stem from the same source: unprocessed emotions. These emotions create suffering as a defense mechanism, keeping us sa…

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Feeling Unheard (Because You Can’t Express What’s True for You). 37:49

19d ago37:49

37:49

In this episode, Scott delves into the profound feelings of being unheard or misunderstood in our relationships. These emotions often stem from our inability to express the authentic feelings we have buried deep within ourselves. Scott explores the origins of identity and how various personas arise to protect us from confronting these buried emotio…

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Our New Book on the Dangers of Spiritual Bypassing 26:22

20d ago26:22

26:22

In this exciting podcast, Scott reveals his latest book on the perils of spiritual bypassing, co-authored with the esteemed Toshi Matsunaga. Through extensive research and years of working with clients, Scott and Toshi have uncovered the critical role that emotional repression plays in driving various forms of suffering. The book delves into the in…

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It’s Not About What We’re Feeling (It’s About What We’re NOT Feeling) 35:20

21d ago35:20

35:20

Join Scott in this insightful episode as he explores a profound perspective on suffering. The science tells us that buried emotions create suffering, and Scott dives deep into how this suffering stems from what we’re not feeling. He explains that suffering arises to awareness because it’s safer than buried emotions. Scott discusses how unresolved c…

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The True Sign of Narcissism Is Overlooked 20:03

22d ago20:03

20:03

Scott proposes that we add a particular sign or qualification to narcissism, one that is often, if not always, overlooked. It’s this one sign that can help us transform narcissism .Listen and find out what the one sign is. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

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The New Enlightenment 41:57

25d ago41:57

41:57

In this podcast, Scott discusses how words like enlightenment and awakening have been used to help us avoid the very root of suffering, buried emotions, which do not arise to awareness. In the future, as people become more educated about how trauma and emotional repression drive suffering, they will find the teachings of enlightenment and awakening…

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The Power of How - A Critique of the Work of Eckhart Tolle 47:34

26d ago47:34

47:34

In this podcast, Scott focuses on Eckhart Tolle’s concept of the “pain body” and how he encourages people to overlook the conditioning of emotional repression hidden in the pain body. Like so many modern non-duality teachings, his work ignores the very root of suffering. Scott goes into all the benefits of Eckhart’s teachings including his articula…

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Shadows Come from Buried Emotions 23:01

27d ago23:01

23:01

In this podcast, Scott explains the connection between shadows and buried emotions as well as the duality of shadows and how that applies to embodied non-dual realization. To work with Scott directly, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

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The Avoidant Hurt and Sadness Repressor 39:23

29d ago39:23

39:23

In this episode, Scott explores the lifelong avoidant patterns and strategies of individuals who repress Hurt and Sadness. He likens their experience to dancing around the outer edge of a black hole within their bodies, where they remain unconscious of the darkness that actually holds the light of their true being. Scott emphasizes that while a lif…

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Why Adult Problems Are Really Childhood Buried Emotions 22:07

1M ago22:07

22:07

Scott takes listeners through the discovery of how we create separation from our unconscious programming and how suffering we see comes in many forms but has one unconscious source. Don’t be fooled by the many names we give childhood buried emotions. It only looks like adult relationship problems and adult suffering like anxiety or addiction at the…

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Is the Secret Still Buried in You? 34:00

1M ago34:00

34:00

Scott returns to the topic of how buried emotions create self-sabotage and therefore how the secret to manifesting the life that you want always feels out of reach as this unconscious operating system thwarts your best efforts to find love, success, awakening or healing. To work with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.…

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The Mind-Body Connection 38:28

1M ago38:28

38:28

Scott gives the KI explanation of the mind-body connections that are vital to the process of making the unconscious drivers of suffering conscious. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

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Premature Forgiveness. 37:19

1M ago37:19

37:19

In this episode, Scott explores the connection between buried emotions and the premature quest for forgiveness. He discusses how we often seek forgiveness as a way to avoid facing our internal suffering. Authentic forgiveness comes from confronting and integrating these hidden emotions. As long as we neglect our true feelings about the past, our su…

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Shame and the Fear of Being Seen. 31:04

1M ago31:04

31:04

In this podcast, Scott discusses how shame and guilt serve as protective layers shielding us from deeper, buried emotions. He explains that we often compartmentalize our reality, identifying with parts of ourselves that bring love and approval, while hiding the parts that evoke fear and shame. This division leads to ongoing suffering, with many ind…

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Die Now 19:39

1M ago19:39

19:39

Scott answers the question, “What are we really afraid of?” To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

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Avoidant Spirituality Disorder 33:03

1M ago33:03

33:03

Scott discusses how spiritual states or realizations easily become enmeshed with unprocessed buried emotions to create or strengthen an avoidant personality. To work with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

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How to Capitalize on Your Suffering 35:35

1M ago35:35

35:35

We create suffering to meet childhood needs. When those needs and the buried emotions connected to them are made conscious, we do not need to create suffering anymore. Listen to Scott explain how to capitalize on your own suffering. Come speak to Scott for free about working one on one with him: https://kiloby.com/scott.…

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Anxiety Is Mostly Buried Anger 22:46

1M ago22:46

22:46

In this episode, Scott discusses the intriguing connection between anxiety and buried anger, highlighting recent scientific findings that suggest a significant link. He emphasizes the importance of verifying if your anxiety stems from repressed anger by taking our free repression test. Scott explains that understanding the mechanism of buried anger…

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How the Sense of Separation Forms 25:12

1M ago25:12

25:12

In this episode, Scott explores the concept of separation from the perspective of the unconscious, highlighting how buried emotions contribute to suffering. He discusses how this sense of separation arises from self-contraction due to trauma experienced in childhood, particularly with unconscious parents. By steering the conversation away from trad…

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Selfish Service 33:38

1M ago33:38

33:38

Scott takes a look at whether being of service to others is ever selfless if we’re driven by unmet needs from childhood and if the price we pay for being so driven is worth the reward. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott..

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My Aggressive Peace 24:47

2M ago24:47

24:47

In this podcast, Scott delves into the concept of covert aggression that often lurked beneath his seemingly peaceful exterior. He reveals how this behavior coming from buried anger shifted the responsibility for difficult conversations or conflicts onto others, allowing him to maintain a façade of being the "good guy" while avoiding addressing deep…

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An Awakening That Ends Suffering 26:27

2M ago26:27

26:27

Scott shares how the topic of what true awakening is has changed for him over the years with suffering being his greatest teacher. To work directly with Scott, https://kiloby.com/scott.

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Taking (Emotional) Responsibility 28:49

2M ago28:49

28:49

In this episode, Scott discusses taking responsibility for the buried emotions that produce suffering instead of making responsibility a moral or ethical issue that keeps us in our heads and keeps separation alive. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

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PESD - Post-Election Stress Disorder 12:14

2M ago12:14

12:14

In the podcast, Scott introduces the concept of "post-election stress disorder," a term he coined to describe the emotional turmoil experienced after a candidate's loss in a presidential election. He suggests that this suffering often stems from unresolved childhood trauma and affects many people for the duration of the four-year election cycle. Sc…

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A Needy Path 31:08

2M ago31:08

31:08

In this compelling episode, Scott delves into the profound impact of unmet needs tied to buried emotions on our suffering and our attempts to alleviate that suffering through spiritual practices. He emphasizes that as long as these needs remain unconscious, we find ourselves stuck in an avoidant spiritual path, failing to address the root causes of…

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Motivated to Procrastinate 36:40

2M ago36:40

36:40

Scott shares the true motivation behind procrastination. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

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My Happy 55th Birthday 6:37

2M ago6:37

6:37

Join Scott as he shares his 55th birthday and upcoming surprises with you. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

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Critique of Immediate Nondual Paths 34:12

2M ago34:12

34:12

Scott critiques the group of teachings and practices known as neo-advaita and other awareness- or now- based teachings and practices that point people to the recognition of freedom immediately. He provides a solid science-based context to reveal why these kinds of teachings miss emotional repression (the root of suffering) and therefore can expose …

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Dissolving Separation 30:42

2M ago30:42

30:42

Scott discusses dissolving separation by making conscious how we create it for safety and love. This approach allows us to lovingly welcome all parts of ourselves instead of hiding in the body the parts we don’t like and identifying with the parts that get us love and keep us safe. To divide ourselves off in that way leaves separation in place. To …

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Simplifying the Attachment Styles - An Energetic Dance 22:40

2M ago22:40

22:40

In this podcast episode, Scott explores his personal experiences and insights gained from working with individuals on the topic of the attachment styles in relationship. He simplifies this complex subject into an energetic dance influenced by fundamental needs for love and safety. As long as we remain unconscious of these needs, driven by the fear …

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I Can’t Help But Cry on Election Day 2024 33:40

2M ago33:40

33:40

Politics is personal and we’re often motivated by unprocessed emotion and trauma from childhood to identify with one party or another. Scott breaks down and cries in this episode, not because he’s afraid of one candidate winning over the other, but at the sheer unconsciousness of believing that we can solve the world’s issues from unprocessed traum…

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The Real Scandal in Spirituality 32:39

2M ago32:39

32:39

Scott breaks down what he sees as the real scandal in spirituality, the attempts to bring avoidant eastern practices to the masses while emotional repression remains untouched in the bodies of students. Scott explains how this is like a ticking time bomb with delayed but devastating results. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/sco…

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OVER-GIVING to Others and UNDER-LOVING Ourselves 34:56

2M ago34:56

34:56

In this podcast episode, Scott explores his own co-dependency coming from buried anger and how over-giving to others and presenting himself as false was how he unconsciously sought to get childhood unmet needs for safety and love met. Listen and you may find a little, if not a lot, of yourself in this episode if you have buried anger. To work direc…

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Selling Out on the Spiritual Path 24:37

2M ago24:37

24:37

Selling out on the spiritual path is like selling out as an artist, but the stakes are so much higher. Scott explains. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

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Intimacy Will Come to You 29:20

2M ago29:20

29:20

Scott shares intimately about intimacy. To work with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

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You’ll Discover Real Authenticity and Vulnerability in KI. 31:52

2M ago31:52

31:52

In this episode, Scott explores the impact of repressing emotions, questioning whether those who suppress their feelings turn into rage-filled individuals or become engulfed in sadness and grief. He emphasizes that true self-discovery comes from addressing the root causes of our suffering. By examining how repressed anger, along with buried feeling…

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FROZEN PRESENCE - When You Can’t Feel What You Are! 38:38

2M ago38:38

38:38

Scott gets down to the secret sauce of KI - the direct discovery of the core frozen fears hidden in the body that create suffering and separation. To work directly with Scott, visit. https://kiloby.com/scott.

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The Narcissism of Emotional Repression 30:03

2M ago30:03

30:03

In the podcast, Scott responds to a question from someone he's training in KI who wondered if clearing emotional repression would make them selfish. Scott explained that, in reality, the opposite is true. He emphasizes that selfishness or narcissism stems from holding back emotions, which leads to the creation of false identities and strategies for…

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Authentic Relationship 30:37

3M ago30:37

30:37

In this podcast, Scott delves into the concept of authentic relating, emphasizing that true connection is hindered by buried emotions. He explains that when we are driven by unconscious needs for safety, love, and other essentials, we create suffering in our relationships. Many people tend to seek external solutions—like practices or other individu…

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The Needs You Ignore Become the Suffering You Abhor 23:34

3M ago23:34

23:34

In this podcast, Scott discusses how unmet childhood needs for love and safety unconsciously lead us into bypassing on spiritual or healing paths. He explains that suffering, deeply rooted in the unconscious body, shows up in relationships, causing disconnection and prompting us to seek relief through various practices. However, because of buried e…

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The Shaming of Addicts 29:11

3M ago29:11

29:11

In this podcast, Scott explains how buried emotions drive addictions, yet we remain unaware of these drivers, allowing shame and the cycle of addiction itself to distract us from the root of it all - for safety and love. Some of our best intentions to recover or help others recover are coming from buried rage. Scott shares his personal experience o…

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