Ep 114: Set Boundaries, Date Astrology Signs

QueerWOC

Dr. Money wants to know if there is truly an astrological sign you wouldn’t date. This episode of the podcast highlights deaf Black Lesbian filmmaker Jade Bryan as #QueerWOC of the week. In the Mental Moment segment, Dr. Money shares about the growing buzz around setting boundaries in relationships and the difference between a rule and a boundary. Also, is anyone else obsessed with the Amazon Prime original A League of Their Own? We need a season 2! Intro by @truthizmagic Transition and outro by @abundanc3beats https://songwhip.com/abundanc3beats/lotus-tape-vol-1 https://songwhip.com/abundanc3beats/drift-wood Where to find me: IG & Twitter - @queerwocpod FB - https://www.facebook.com/QueerWOCpod/ Tumblr - www.QueerWOC.com Listen to us on Spotify, Soundcloud, Google Podcast, Stitcher, Apple Podcast App, Castbox, or PocketCasts Contribute to QueerWOC via CashApp: $QueerWOCPod Become a Patron: https://www.patreon.com/queerwocpod Rate, Review, Request, Repost, Retweet, and Reply! Use the hashtag #QueerWOC to talk all things the podcast Send me an email or submit your Curved Chronicles: [e-mail] QueerWOC of the Week 00:03:39 Deaf filmmaker Jade Bryan https://blog.ai-media.tv/blog/video-meet-the-deaf-filmmaker-who-started-a-movement [Shoutout to @deafQueer on IG] JADE BRYAN is a Jamaican American lesbian and the First Black Deaf Award-Winning Filmmaker. Her first film was a short film titled “Cutting the Edge of A Free Bird” This film is widely held as the first film created by a Black deaf lesbian to be shown at film festivals. You can watch it here: https://www.jadefilm.com/copy-of-catalogue-1#:~:text=Cutting%20The%20Edge%20of%20a%20Free%20Bird%20(1991),her%20life%20like%20her%20own. She also produced and directed the award-winning documentaries as “Listen to the Hands of Our People", a 1994 film featuring seven HIV positive deaf and hard of hearing people living with AIDS. Mental Moment with Money 00:09:55 Inspired by Boundary or a rule [@RaquelMartinPhD] Mind your mental podcast My understanding of the origins of boundaries is Bowen 1960s Family Systems Theory, and I’ve talked about how to set boundaries on the podcast before, in episode 24 which you can listen to here: https://soundcloud.com/queerwoc/bye-phobia Clear and specific boundaries help us keep a sense of ourselves and connection to others without triangulating ourselves A boundary guides your behavior; a rule guides someone else's behavior; a threat is when you have the power to guide someone else's behavior out of fear, not out of choice Boundaries intend to shift your own response to a situation and remind you of your own power Rules intend to shift others responses and remind them of your authority Threats intend to shift someone else’s behavior and remind them to fear your power Topic 00:36:10 Amazon Prime original A League of Their Own Curved Chronicles 00:43:40 Are there zodiac signs you just won’t date? Why? Community Contributors Now Credits This episode of QueerWOC the podcast was made possible thanks to the monetary contributions of Amanda, Hazel, Das, Yesi, and Ti’Esh who became new patrons This episode was also made possible by the listeners in Pearland, TX; Eugene, Oregon; and Tallahassee, FL