Why Marriages Don't Work

The Seun Osigbesan Podcast

In this insightful episode of "The Seun Osigbesan Podcast," Pastor Seun Osigbesan delves deep into the often complex world of marriages and relationships. Drawing inspiration from Genesis 2:16-20, Pastor Seun emphasizes a fundamental truth: successful marriages are the result of conscious investments made by the parties involved.

He uncovers the critical reasons why marriages sometimes falter and offers practical advice on how to strengthen them. Here are the key highlights:

Wrong Choices: Your choice of a life partner profoundly influences the course of your marriage. Some individuals are simply not meant for each other, and recognizing this is crucial.

Lack of Conviction: Doubts can creep in when there is no strong conviction about the relationship. Your unwavering belief in the partnership is what sustains it during challenging times.

Unhealthy Comparison: Pastor Seun cautions against comparing your spouse to others, as it can breed problems. It's natural to desire more, but never let comparisons erode your relationship.

Unfaithfulness: Infidelity is a destructive force in any marriage. To singles, he advises addressing lust issues before entering a committed relationship.

Lack of Romance and Sexual Dissatisfaction: Neglecting the romantic and sexual aspects of a marriage can create rifts. Open communication about your sex life is vital.

Lack of Spiritual Intimacy: A strong foundation in Christ, prayer, and the Word of God is essential for a lasting marriage.

Cohabitation and Premarital Sex: Engaging in sexual activities before marriage can weaken the foundation of your union and erode trust.

Unwillingness to Change: Flexibility and willingness to adapt are key to relationship success. Making adjustments is often necessary.

Extreme Third-Party Interference: Resolving issues internally is crucial; involving too many external parties can lead to more problems.

Throughout the episode, Pastor Seun offers hope and encouragement, emphasizing that great marriages are still possible with the right investments and commitment. Tune in to gain valuable insights into building a strong and enduring marriage. Don't miss this eye-opening episode of "The Seun Osigbesan Podcast."