When Your Pregnancy is Killing You, an interview about TFMR with Emily, Maliyah's Mom

As Long As I'm Living

We are honored to be joined on the podcast today by Emily, Maliyah's Mom, to talk about her TFMR (termination for medical reasons) last year. In our previous interviews about TFMR, the parents have had to make the decision to terminate due to their baby's own serious condition(s). In this case, Emily had to choose a termination to save her own life and lost her daughter in the process.

This is a crystal clear example of how abortion is healthcare. Emily's pregnancy was killing her, and there was no way to save both her baby and herself. This conversation feels more important than ever with the continued attacks on reproductive healthcare in many states here in the US.

Thank you for listening with an open heart to Emily's story, and thank you Emily for your vulnerability.

Note: We separated out the majority of the medical details of Maliyah's birth into a separate episode for those of you who find pregnancy complications triggering. To listen to that episode for all of the context, go back one in your podcast feed!

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Things we talk about in this episode:

- ⁠HELLP syndrome⁠ - Hemolysis, Elevated Liver enzymes, and Low Platelets syndrome

- ALAIL | ⁠TFMR is Baby Loss, an interview with Hadley's Mom Jill⁠

- ALAIL | ⁠When "Choice" Doesn't Feel Like a Choice, an interview about TFMR with Adelyn's Mom Alyssa⁠

- ALAIL | ⁠The Stillbirth Specialist, an interview with OBGYN Dr. Heather Florescue (Part 1)⁠

- ALAIL | ⁠From the Other Side of the Stirrups, another interview with OBGYN Dr. Heather Florescue (Part 2)⁠

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As Long As I'm Living is a podcast about life, love, and laughter after infant loss. Judith and Alina are rebuilding Happier Ever After one day at a time despite excruciating grief and trauma and offering support to grievers of all flavors, but especially those who have lost a baby to SIDS, infant death, birth accidents, stillbirth, TFMR, ectopic pregnancy, or miscarriage.

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