S1E07: Chris Brown - Transforming as Men in Relationships

Dare to be Different with Craig White

In this episode, I sit down with Chris Brown, a professional coach and devoted father. Chris shares his incredible journey of personal transformation and the deep impact it has had on his relationships. From overcoming the challenges of separation to redefining what it means to be a present and loving partner and father, Chris's story is a testament to the power of self-awareness, therapy, and the importance of male friendships. Tune in to explore themes of vulnerability, intimacy, and the continuous journey toward personal and relational growth.

Show notes

Introduction:

• Craig White introduces Chris Brown, highlighting his achievements and their shared history.

Early Challenges and Separation:

• Chris recounts the struggles he faced leading to his separation from his family.
• He reflects on his misplaced priorities, focusing too much on work and not enough on emotional presence.

Path to Transformation:

• Chris delves into his journey over the past four years, emphasising the importance of self-development.
• Key resources that helped Chris: "The Masculine in Relationship" by G.S. Youngblood, and "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover.

Therapeutic and Embodiment Practices:

• Chris discusses the transformative power of therapy and embodiment practices.
• He shares personal experiences from breathwork, men's retreats, and working with embodiment coaches like John Wineland.

Intimacy and Vulnerability:

• The conversation explores the concept of intimacy beyond sexuality.
• Chris emphasises the importance of presence and emotional attunement in relationships.

Lessons in Fatherhood:

• Chris talks about his journey as a father, balancing emotional openness with guiding his children's strength.
• He shares insights on nurturing emotional intelligence in his children.

Building Strong Male Relationships:

• The significance of male friendships and supportive men's groups in Chris's transformation.
• Practical advice for men seeking to create or join such groups to foster personal growth.

Final Thoughts and Future Aspirations:

• Chris reflects on his ongoing commitment to personal and relational growth.
• He shares his vision of continuing to help men through his evolving journey and experiences.

Conclusion:

• Craig and Chris wrap up the episode with reflections on the conversation and its broader implications.
• Craig thanks Chris for his honesty and courage in sharing his story, and they look forward to future discussions and continued growth.