Beyond Inclusion: Building True Belonging for Kids with Disabilities with John Fela - Episode 23

Inclusion and Advocacy from a Parent's Perspective: The Inclusive Dad

In this episode of The Inclusive Dad Podcast, host AAron interviews disability advocate John Fela about his experiences as a father to a child with autism and his work with Joni and Friends, a global Christian disability organization. Fela discusses his journey advocating for inclusion, community, and understanding for people with disabilities. He emphasizes the importance of creating supportive networks for parents, especially fathers, and shares personal stories of resilience and growth through challenging experiences. The episode highlights the need for inclusive environments in schools, churches, and communities.

Key Takeaways:

Defining Inclusion: Inclusion means more than presence; it’s about full acceptance and participation in all aspects of life.

Community Support: Building a supportive community is essential for parents, especially fathers, of children with disabilities.

Awareness Talks: Engaging classmates and church members fosters understanding and integration for children with disabilities.

Self-Care for Parents: Structured self-care is vital for parents to avoid burnout and maintain well-being.

Trusting Care Decisions: The journey of placing a child in residential care involves significant emotional challenges and trust.

John’s definition of inclusion:

Not only are you allowed to be there, not only do we want you to be there, but we're going to treat you like anyone else.

John’s Bio:

John Fela (Felageller) is the Ministry Relations Manager at Joni and Friends Chicago, working with churches to equip and train them to help the disabled in their communities. Previous to that, he spent almost 20 years in education, working with children from Infants to Middle School, serving in a variety of roles including Teacher, Mentor Teacher and School Director. John lives in Lyons, IL, is married to his wife Faith and father to his son Christopher (ASD). He is a public speaker, multiple podcast guest, and regular contributor to Key Ministry’s Special Needs Family blog, as well as other special needs blogs including Hope Anew and The Mighty.

Connect with John:

Website: www.johnfela.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/johnsspecialneedsblog

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/john_fela_1

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-fela-0b839920/

Resources:

Special Fathers Network: https://21stcenturydads.org/about-the-special-fathers-network/

Key Ministry: https://www.keyministry.org/

Rising Above Ministries: https://www.risingaboveministries.org/

Fatherhood CoMission: https://www.fatherhoodcomission.com/

Joni and Friends: https://joniandfriends.org/

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Yes

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Yes

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No - 8

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