039 Male Bisexuality and Being a Boyslut with Zachary Zane

Ask A Sex Therapist with Heather Shannon

💥Are you ready for an eye-opening conversation about male bisexuality and owning your relationship with sex? Join us on this episode where our host Heather and special guest Zachary Zane dive deep into the world of male bisexuality, exploring topics such as emotional intimacy, sexual exploration, and finding community. Get ready to challenge stereotypes and embrace your authentic self! 🌟

In this episode, Zach opens up about his journey, challenges, and wins. Here are some highlights you can expect:

• 1️⃣ Breaking Stereotypes: Uncover the truth about bisexuality and challenge the misconceptions surrounding it. It's time to dismantle the stigma and celebrate the diversity of human sexuality.
• 2️⃣ Navigating Sexual Identity: Zach shares his personal journey of discovering and embracing his bisexuality, highlighting the importance of self-acceptance, support, and the power of community.
• 3️⃣ From Confusion to Confidence: Learn how therapy both hindered and helped Zach in finding clarity and acceptance of his sexual orientation. Gain insights into the process of self-discovery and the importance of seeking guidance and support (from the right person!) when needed.
• 4️⃣ Forming Connections & Finding Community: Dive into a discussion about the challenges of finding inclusive spaces and supportive communities for bisexual individuals. Discover practical tips and resources to connect with like-minded people.

Whether you're bisexual, questioning your identity, or simply curious about the subject, this episode is not to be missed! 🌈💪Don't miss out — hit play and let's dive deep into the world of male bisexuality with Zachary Zane! 🎧🔥

Time Stamps:

[00:00:44] Zachary Zane: Brooklyn columnist, sex expert, activist.

[00:06:07] Shifted focus to help bisexual men, promoting their existence and providing support for their struggles with identity and dating. Advocates for collaboration between sex-positive and queer movements.

[00:10:19] I openly discuss my past relationships and hurt.

[00:11:32] Teased rumors about being more feminine, gay.

[00:15:30] Confusion over sexual orientation, therapist suggests bisexual.

[00:19:34] Bisexuality journey, challenges, and embracing new life.

[00:23:47] Bisexuals face judgment but shouldn't engage.

[00:27:05] Sexual preferences vary, some prioritize novelty.

[00:29:47] Projection, denial, and hurt in labeling.

[00:35:21] Own your relationship with sex, connect with others.

[00:38:28] Online communities help connect and find friends.

[00:39:37] Different groups cater to specific struggles and preferences.

[00:43:28] Bisexuality: breaking the cycle of invisibility.

EPISODE LINKS

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CONNECT WITH GUEST, ZACHARY ZANE:

Buy Boyslut - https://www.amazon.com/Boyslut-Memoir-Manifesto-Zachary-Zane/dp/1419764713

Zach’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/zacharyzane_/

Zach’s Website - https://www.zacharyzane.com/

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