Thriving Together: Uncovering the Power of Community for Autism Moms

Thriving Moms of Autistics

Hi Moms! I don’t think you can summarize autism parenting in just one word. It’s such a blend of amazing, challenging, and isolating. There is so much uncertainty. However, you don’t have to go through this alone.

There are so many demands. It can feel overwhelming! In this episode, we explore the beauty of community and finding others who get it!

Find the full transcript for this episode at https://thrivingmomsofautistics.com/80

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Why Community is Essential in Your Autism Journey

The isolation starts even before the diagnosis. Some notice the differences, while others do what they can to deny them and make you believe the differences don’t exist or are not an issue.

Finding others who get the multiple therapy appointments, the public meltdowns, and so much more is priceless.

I’ve shared some of my story in the past of how everything changed when I developed my community. Notice I said developed and not found. That is because your supportive community is developed over time and is not something that just appears.

I never thought I would hear the words, “I remember when my child did that.” I never thought I would have others to share strategies with.

Oh, and when we are in public together, watch out world! We can handle anything that comes our way.

It is a relief having a safe space to vent, where others don’t look at you like you have three heads.

We celebrate victories together, and boy can we celebrate! The little things aren’t so little.

Finding Community Takes Time for Moms of Autistics

You’ve already started developing your community. We all have therapists and case managers. Although this is a very small part of your community, it is a start.

Nearly everyone is on social media. Facebook has many special needs community groups. Most of us are in these groups already. Again, this is a very small segment of your community.

As you continue to build your community, here are some tips for building a strong, supportive community.

1. It’s easy to place others at arm's length. We endure a lot of unfair judgment from others. It’s okay to be open and authentic when sharing with others, who get your struggles and understand your celebrations.
2. Since every autism journey is different, be respectful and supportive of others, even if you don’t fully understand. Meet people where they are at. We appreciate when others do this for us.
3. Sometimes others don’t need advice or a quick fix. The greatest gift you can give them is to actively listen to them. Sometimes that is all they want, and that is okay.
4. It is wonderful to help one another, who have been in a similar boat. We can learn so much from one another. It is just as important to accept help from others.

It’s time to get off the island and start building your community and ease your burden. Let’s inspire and empower one another!

I dedicate this episode to my small group. You know who you are, and I love and cherish you!

I look forward to our time together next week!