Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub. Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a ...
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Welcome to Sweet Release, the podcast where we dive into the delectable world of pleasure, self-love, healing, kink, intimacy, and non-traditional style relationships. I’m your host, Barbie Jean, and each week, we’ll embark on a journey to uncover the secrets of sheer satisfaction and enticing exploration. Get ready to unleash your desires, challenge norms, and embrace every facet of your authentic self. Be sweet. Video Episodes available on Spotify & Youtube.
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79. Pro Domme Sophia - Feet, Sissification, & Group Play
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Welcome back, sweets! I'm so excited to have Sophia on the pod this week. She's diving deep into her journey of embracing her dominance, and we had such a fun chat about her love for foot worship, directing sissification scenes, and even a little water sports and group play action. She also opens up about her past in a religious marriage and cult, …
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81. AMA - Feet & Butt Size, Fear of Rejection, & Cuckolding Advice
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Hi sweets, in this week's episode, we discuss feet, butts, my opinions on jealousy, fear of rejection, and fear of navigating a cuckolding fetish. Enjoy! Ask me anything: https://ngl.link/barbiejeanxo/ Exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/BarbieJean My website: https://www.barbiejeanxo.com/
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80. Oyku - Bisexuality, Strict Upbringing, & Monogamish Lifestyle
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Meet Oyku, the founder of Beyond, a dating app for modern relationships. We dive into her background growing up in a Turkish household, her bisexual journey, and her love for sharing partners. Enjoy! Connect with Oyku: https://www.instagram.com/cheerswithoyku/ Download Beyond app: https://beyond.app.link/join/sweetrelease?campaign=podcast_sweetrele…
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🔒 🔒 Thrilling & Discreet: Mastering Public Exhibitionism Responsibly
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Subscriber-only episode Hi submissive! Are you ready to push your boundaries and step into the thrilling world of public exhibitionism? Join me, Chastity Queen, as I share essential tips on how to enjoy this exciting activity responsibly. Learn how to avoid areas frequented by families and children, always have a backup plan, and carry the right ge…
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🔒 CUMMING IS A WASTE - What Can Replace It ?
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Subscriber-only episode Hi My dear subscriber! Unlock the secrets of heightened pleasure and self-control by joining Chastity Queen on an exhilarating exploration of chastity and edging. This episode promises to change the way you think about sexual discipline and its impact on your overall well-being. Enjoy the hypnosis, at the end of this episode…
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78. Unlock Every Orgasm: Secrets You Need to Know!
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Welcome back, sweets! This week, Leola opens up about her journey from faking orgasms to exploring and embracing a variety of genuine and juicy experiences. We dive into the significance of intention and how mindfulness can pave the way for new growth and healing. Tune in for an enlightening conversation on how to experience an array of delicious d…
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🔒 Porn Addiction + Hypnosis: Locked For Life & Denied Into Insanity
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Subscriber-only episode Hi My dear SUBscriber! Unlock the secrets to a more fulfilling and controlled sexual experience! Join me, Chastity Queen, as we confront the grim realities of excessive porn consumption and habitual masturbation. Discover how the visual allure of porn traps men in a cycle of addiction, leading to diminishing returns and a pe…
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Hi sweets, in this week's episode, we dive into our tips and tricks to land your first threesome! We discuss how to handle boundary crossing situations, communication, and how to re-connect afterwards. Enjoy! Check out my favorite play party: https://theplay.la/ My website: https://www.barbiejeanxo.com/ Exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/Ba…
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Hi sweets, welcome back to an episode about my journey, lessons learned, and of course some delicious delights. Thanks for your support and much love! xo My website: https://www.barbiejeanxo.com/ Exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/BarbieJean Shop toys: https://www.amazon.com/shop/sweetreleasepodcast I earn from qualifying purchases…
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🔒 From Control to Connection: When a Submissive Feels a Connection to His Domme
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Subscriber-only episode Hello Subs! In this episode of Diaries of a Domme, I kick things off with heartfelt shout-outs to My fans in Saudi Arabia and Grand Prairie, Texas. I dive into the world of chastity, offering guidance to couples eager to venture into this unique lifestyle. From selecting the right device for comfort and long-term use to enga…
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75. Vudu Dahl - BDSM, Sugar Dating, Self-Love, & Non-Binary Gender Expression
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Hi sweets! This week, we have a captivating guest, Vudu. They’ve journeyed through a unique and challenging upbringing in a cult, filled with abuse and trauma, but have used their adult life to heal and explore. From sugar dating and escorting to bondage and their path to self-love, Vudu shares it all. They’ve also designed and created Dahlier, a s…
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🔒 Rewards of Obedience: Sexcursions and Gratitude
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Subscriber-only episode My dear subs, What happens when you send submissives on thrilling "sexcursions"? Join me, Chastity Queen, as I reveal the captivating dynamics of giving subs adventurous tasks that fulfill my desires and deepen our Domme/sub relationship. In this episode of Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, I share an intimate story a…
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74. Orgasm Sounds, Rough Sex, & Erectile Dysfunction
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Hi sweets, welcome back to another solo episode where I answer more of your questions. In this ep, I share more details about my slutty cheerleading past, transparency and boundaries, piggyback fetish story, and much more! My website: https://www.barbiejeanxo.com/ Exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/BarbieJean Shop toys: https://www.amazon.c…
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Hi, sweets! Welcome back to our longest episode yet, featuring 24 unique, kinky, and free-spirited guests. This was such a delight, and I hope you enjoy these conversations as much as I enjoyed having them. Sit back and join the party as we dive into stories from contest winners, favorite play party memories, tons of advice, love, laughs, and a tou…
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72. Giving Oral, Sexy Transgender, Underwear Kink, & Exploring Anal
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Hi sweets, welcome back to another AMA episode! I have a lot of fun new content on my Patreon and lots more coming soon! Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/BarbieJean My website: https://www.barbiejeanxo.com/ Shop toys: https://www.amazon.com/shop/sweetreleasepodcast I earn from qualifying purchases…
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Hi sweets, welcome back! This week we're discussing the quicksand fetish. Thanks to the people who inspired this topic. Much love and enjoy! xo Shop here for products mentioned in this ep as well as some other juicy finds ;) https://amzn.to/4btYA8H I earn from qualifying purchases My website: https://www.barbiejeanxo.com/ Exclusive content: https:/…
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70. Kitt - Rope Suspension, Latex Hood, Playing Dress-Up, & Expression
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Hi sweets, this week we have the beautiful Kitt, who shares her experience as a bottom and top in the rope world. She discusses how to install hard points in your space, her teachings and performances with rope and suspension, her love for latex and dressing up, plus a lot of advice and kinky topics thrown in. Enjoy! Connect with Kitt: https://www.…
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69. Toe Sucking, Dirty Talk, Owning Sexiness, & AI Nudes
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Welcome back Sweets to another juicy AMA episode where I delve into a bunch of fun and random topics just for you! I’m so grateful for each of you and for the incredible journey we’re on together. We’re smashing stigmas and spreading knowledge - let’s keep this amazing vibe going! My website: https://www.barbiejeanxo.com/ Exclusive content: https:/…
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🔒 What is the Difference Between a Submissive, Pet and Slave? + PERSONAL STORIES
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Subscriber-only episode Hello dear subscribers! Ever found yourself curious about the fine lines separating submissive, slave, and pet roles in the BDSM community? You're in luck! Join me, Chastity Queen, as I unpack the dynamics of these roles. You'll learn how freedom and responsibilities are balanced within these relationships and why clear expe…
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From Conservative Roots to Dominance: My Journey into BDSM + Practical Tips
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How does one transition from a strict religious upbringing to becoming a professional dominant in the BDSM world? Join me, Chastity Queen, as I share my unique journey of personal and sexual evolution. This episode promises to offer you practical advice on how to connect with the BDSM community and explore your fetishes. I dive into my transformati…
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🔒 Establish or Re-establish Trust in a Relationship Using a CHASTITY DEVICE!
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Subscriber-only episode Can past traumas and insecurities truly be healed through something as unconventional as a chastity cage? Tune in to discover how incorporating BDSM practices like chastity, tease, denial, can dramatically transform the trust and intimacy in your relationship. I discuss the profound impact of addressing emotional baggage and…
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68. Confessions - Spanking, Prostate Pleasure, Sadism, CFNM, & Humiliation
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Hi sweets, welcome back to another confessions episode - woohoo! Listen to me rant about what I've been up to, while giving my advice along the way of course. There's a lot of juicy confessions in this episode. Thank you all for sharing! Confess here: https://ngl.link/barbiejeanxo/confessions My website: https://www.barbiejeanxo.com/ Exclusive cont…
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🔒 Unlocking Female Pleasure: Secrets to Making Her Squirt
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Subscriber-only episode Subs and SLAVES!!! Unlock the ultimate secret to a woman's pleasure with Chastity Queen in this electrifying episode of Diaries of a Domme. Learn the art of making your Queen squirt as We/we dive deep into creating an open and judgment-free environment where She can confidently express Her sexuality. From breaking monotonous…
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67. Goddess Obiani - Nudity, Lesbian Porn, Bleaching Skin, & Snakes
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Hi sweets, welcome back to another divine episode with a goddess herself, Obiani. She focuses on wellness-centered creativity while harnessing her sacred, sexual power. She's always giving thanks and grace to her journey and acceptance to her authenticity. She is a liberated, powerful, woman and I'm grateful for this conversation, hoping to empower…
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66. Tia Lynn - Squirting, Birthday Fantasy, Pole Dancing, & Confidence
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Hi sweets, this week our guest is Tia Lynn, a marketing, intimacy, & confidence coach. She's also a pole dance instructor, as well as a pleasure enthusiast herself. We discuss shame, exploration, dance, boundaries, orgasms, and more. Enjoy! xo Connect with Tia: https://beacons.ai/sexybizbabe/ Tia's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexybizbabe M…
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🔒 Cross-Dressing Etiquette + FASHION TIPS
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Subscriber-only episode Step into the vibrant world of cross-dressing with your Queen, Chastity Queen, as We/we peel back the layers on proper attire and etiquette. Ever wonder how to make a statement with your cross-dressing choices without stepping over the line? This episode is your guide to doing just that, as we tackle the pivotal do's and don…
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🔒 Secrets of Submission: Mastering Humility and Forging Trust in Femdom Dynamics
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Subscriber-only episode Embark on a transformative journey with me, Chastity Queen, as we explore the nuanced world of submission in femdom relationships. Unlock the secrets to becoming a treasured submissive by mastering the art of humility, steering clear of the pitfalls of 'topping from the bottom,' and fostering a symbiotic bond with your domin…
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65. AMA - Cum, Masturbating, & Being a Slut
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Hi sweets, welcome back! This week is another AMA episode and I answer many more of your juicy questions. Learn more about my younger years as well as my slutty years, plus how I feel and think about some pretty random topics. Ask Me Anything: https://ngl.link/barbiejeanxo Watch me on Nerdapolitan Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IQuwmqVJg_…
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A Queen's Personal Experience:From Nightmares to New Beginnings The Art of Reassembling My Life
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Hello My dear fans and followers, Facing the specters of a troubled past is a journey few can speak of with both candor and hope. My story, deeply rooted in the complexities of an oppressive religious upbringing and the struggle for personal liberation, unfolds in today's heartfelt dialogue. I take you through My attempt at therapy to focus on and …
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64. The Play Sex Party, Artistry, Intention, Fire & Electro Toys
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Hi sweets and welcome back! In this week's episode, we have a special guest, Michael, co-founder of The Play LA. Having recently experienced one of their events myself, we delve into the exciting details and the vibrant atmosphere of their artist-forward and carefully curated parties. Michael shares insights into the inspiration behind The Play and…
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Hi sweets! In this week's solo episode, I delve into two fascinating fetishes. Remember, you're wonderful just as you are. I offer tips for exploring the smoking and sneezing fetishes within your relationship and, of course, aim to normalize them. Enjoy!
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62. Brendon Q - Pansexual, Switch, Pain Therapy, Dick Mold, & Orgies
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Meet Brendon, a tatted up pansexual sharing his switch energy with us. We chat about orgies, rope suspension, aftercare, fantasy scenarios, polyamory, some of his personal experiences, and lots of pleasure of course. Thanks for being here! Connect with Brendon here: https://brendonqueue.com/ Oh, and I apologize for the minor audio feedback in a cou…
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How I Began My Journey as a Female Dominant. Being a Newbie Submissive + TASK
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Listeners, Step into the world of BDSM with confidence and grace as Chastity Queen takes you under her wing, revealing the secrets behind mastering the role of a Domme. Uncovering the layered importance of preparation, safety, and communication in the dynamics of dominance and submission. This episode is not just a guide; it's an invitation to unde…
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61. Derek Kage - Chastity Cages, Waterboarding, Sissification, & Gender Exploration
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Meet Derek Kage, a triple 2024 award winner landing best newcomer and best leading actor at the GayVN Awards as well as gay performer of the year at the XBIZ Awards. He's a southern gent with a seductive, deep voice, and we talk all the things. From coming out, unhealthy relationships, and finding happiness, to chastity cages, waterboarding, power …
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60. AMA - Giving Head, Pegging, Eating Ass, & Jockstraps
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Welcome back sweets to another AMA episode. This week we're talking a lot about oral sex, with some intimidation guidance and hairy booty thoughts sprinkled in. Enjoy! This episode was sponsored by Popstar. Bigger Loads. Better Taste. Use code BESWEET for 20% off your first order at @popstarlabs https://www.Popstarlabs.com/besweet My website: https…
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🔒 Erotic Hypnosis and Small Penis Humiliation with the Chastity Queen: A Lesson in Servitude + TASK
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Subscriber-only episode My dear submissive and subscriber, Prepare to be captivated as I, your Chastity Queen, lead you through a tantalizing journey into the world of erotic sph hypnosis, where small penis humiliation takes center stage. You, My cherished listeners, are the heart of this journey, and it's with your dedication that we dive headfirs…
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59. Silvia Saige - Blow Bang, Mutual Masturbation, Pillow Princess, & Mental Health
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Meet Silvia Saige, a comic, adult film actress, and host of Sexy Funny Raw Podcast. We have a flowing conversation about sexual energy, fantasies, film sets, comedy, getting into adult film, anal, marriage, and more. Enjoy! Connect with Silvia: https://beacons.ai/silviasaigexxx This episode was sponsored by Popstar. Bigger Loads. Better Taste. Use …
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Reigniting Desire Through the Art of Chastity + TASK
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Hi kinky subs! Have you ever entertained the idea of surrendering ultimate control to your partner? This episode, hosted by the ever-passionate Chastity Queen, pulls back the curtain on the intriguing world of chastity and its transformative power in relationships. You'll find out why bestowing the gift of control and becoming a keyholder isn't jus…
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58. Ally - Non-Monogamy, Jealousy, Boundaries, & Play Parties
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Meet Ally, the founder of Passport2Pleasure, a company dedicated to fostering healthy relationships through private guidance, eco-luxury retreats, and a wealth of online courses and resources for anyone exploring alternative relationship dynamics. We discuss how to handle jealous emotions that may come up for you and the importance of ongoing bound…
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🔒 When Fantasy Meets Reality + A SHOCKING TASK
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Subscriber-only episode Hello subs! Have you ever tiptoed along the edge where your deepest desires blur into the fabric of reality? I'm Chastity Queen, your Guide through the shadowy corridors of BDSM fantasies, where the whisper of leather can unlock the vault of one's darkest yearnings. With a treasure trove of personal encounters, I illuminate …
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In this short episode, we talk about condoms. I'm here to bust some myths. Thanks for watching/listening! xo My website: https://www.barbiejeanxo.com/ Exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/BarbieJean Shop toys: https://www.amazon.com/shop/sweetreleasepodcast I earn from qualifying purchases
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56. Elleven/Cameron - Drag, Fluidity, Herpes, & Water Sports
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Hi sweets! Meet Elleven Divine, a gorgeous drag queen sharing her character development, expression, and experience in the drag community. Then, see her unveil as Cameron who I actually dated for a short time. This is the first time I’ve had someone I’ve dated on the pod woohoo popping my own cherry. 💫 It’s so beautiful seeing the full transformati…
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🔒 🔒 TASK+Mastering the Art of Self-Bondage and Cock Binding: A Guide to Safe, Solo Pleasure + TIPS
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Subscriber-only episode Hello My dear sub! Unlock the secrets of self-imposed pleasure and control as I, Chastity Queen, take you on a transformative journey through the realms of self-bondage, with a special lens on cock bondage. Prepare to be equipped with knowledge on how to turn the ordinary into the extraordinary, responsibly harnessing househ…
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55. AMA - Threesome Conversations, Erectile Dysfunction, Medical Fetish, & Differing Body Types
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In this AMA, we discuss how to communicate to your partner that you'd like to have a threesome, my experience with jealousy, how to avoid cumming too quickly, plus supplements I recommend, exploring medical fetish, dealing with negative reactions to having foreskin, having curvy bodies in the swinger lifestyle, and I finish it off with sports makin…
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54. Sammy - Homophobia, Slapping, Choking, & Queer Exploration
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Hi sweets, welcome back! Meet Sammy, a queer sexual enthusiast. Be sweet to your sexual nature, be sweet to your internalized homophobia, and just be sweet out there y'all! My website: https://www.barbiejeanxo.com/ Exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/BarbieJean Shop toys: https://www.amazon.com/shop/sweetreleasepodcast I earn from qualifying…
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53. Sophia Locke - Gangbangs, Golden Showers, Adult Film, & Lactation
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Hi sweets! Meet Sophia Locke, an adult film performer. She opens up about her past relationship, her mom not accepting her career, her fantasies, her favorite gang bang, and more! I had so much fun getting to know her, I hope you do too. Be sweet to yourself, be sweet to pornstars, and please be sweet to your family members living their truth. Much…
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Happy Valentine's Day! Male Self-Esteem and a Femdom's Positive Impact + TASK
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Happy Valentine's Day subs! Embark on a provocative foray into the realm of desire and discipline with yours truly, Chastity Queen, as I guide you through an electrifying fantasy task that teases the edge of your restraints. Feel the tension build and your breath quicken while we explore the tantalizing intersection of control and release. But the …
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52. MILF, Threesomes, DP, Humiliation & Degradation
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Hi sweets, welcome back to another confessions episode! Check out my workshop here: https://www.barbiejeanxo.com/store/p/unveil-your-erotic-desires-in-person-workshop Shop my amazon store where I earn commissions: https://www.amazon.com/shop/sweetreleasepodcast My exclusive content: https://patreon.com/BarbieJean Confess your dirty secrets here: ht…
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Subscriber-only episode As we waltz through the complexities of boundaries and authenticity in relationships within the BDSM community, respect, consent, and emotional investment emerge as the leading roles. Reflecting on a personal connection that evolved from foot slut to bull, and the importance of clear communication is underscored. Serving a u…
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Unlocking Erotic Horizons - The Journey of Sexual Self-Discovery and Acceptance
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When I first penned my candid reflections of men and kink on FetLife back in 2016, it was as if I'd unlocked a secret—a place where the complexities of fetish exploration and the thrill of BDSM dynamics accelerate and are illuminated. Throughout this episode, I peel back the layers of joining kink communities, from those initial tentative steps to …
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