Melhores podcasts sobre Stepfamily Support (2024)

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Screen Time Tips: How to Navigate Screens & Technology in Blended Families 20:52

6d ago20:52

20:52

In this episode of the BKF podcast, Scott and Vanessa discuss a challenging issue that impacts all blended families: understanding and managing screen time. With statistics showing kids spend up to 9 hours a day on screens, they explore practical solutions to create balanced and healthy media habits. They share their own family’s rules on screen ti…

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How to Overcome Favoritism - Practical Tips to Improve Your Blended Family 21:53

13d ago21:53

21:53

In this episode of the BKF podcast, How to Overcome Favoritism - Practical Tips to Improve Your Blended Family, Scott and Vanessa discuss the challenging dynamics of favoritism within blended families. They discuss how favoritism can impact both biological and stepchildren, ways to identify signs of favoritism, and share strategies you can implemen…

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Love yourself first! 1:57

20d ago1:57

1:57

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) There’s a great quote from Lucille Ball that goes “Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line.” That for sure has been my personal experience with stepparenting. (And really, with life in general.) As stepparents, we talk a LOT about loving our stepkids, about loving our partners and our blended familie…

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When Your Spouse Puts The Kids First: Reclaim Your Blended Family Marriage 18:29

20d ago18:29

18:29

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, When Your Spouse Puts The Kids First: Reclaim Your Blended Family Marriage, Scott and Vanessa tackle a common issue faced by blended families: when one partner feels like their spouse is choosing their children over them. Learn how to set healthy boundaries, communicate openly, and maintain a strong marriage whil…

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The stigma against stepparents. 1:25

21d ago1:25

1:25

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Society really doesn’t like stepparents, so coming into this role can feel intimidating. Or like we have something to prove, like we are NOT like those bad stepparents. We’re the GOOD stepparents. But do not let society or the ex or even your partner try to marginalize you or the stepparenting role. Our role as stepp…

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Pick your battles. 1:39

22d ago1:39

1:39

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) My stepkid had a real thing for ketchup when she was younger, borderline addiction. I’m talking, putting-ketchup-on-lasagna level of ketchup. She also had problems with acid stomach and wasn’t supposed to be eating too much tomato-based things. Dan sometimes remembered to limit her ketchup intake, but mostly not. The…

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Stepparents have needs too. 1:18

23d ago1:18

1:18

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Becoming a stepparent does not negate the needs and feelings we have as individuals. And yet, so many of our partners seem to think we shouldn’t have those needs or feelings… or at least that we should be perfectly content putting ourselves and our relationship needs dead last, apparently forever. This is not sustain…

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What’s “normal” in a stepfamily? 1:17

24d ago1:17

1:17

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Since most of us have never been stepparents before, learning to recognize what's typical for life in a stepfamily vs. what's a red flag is a bit of a learning curve. For example, it’s normal for your stepkids to act out because they're kids and life in two homes is tough and they don’t like a stepparent’s rules. It’…

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Blending your family takes time. 2:02

25d ago2:02

2:02

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) If you think your blended family will never feel like a "real" family, first of all you’re not alone. But secondly, don’t give up! It’s officially autumn here in the northern hemisphere right now, the air is getting colder and the world is getting quieter as the birds head south and critters start hibernating. Fall i…

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Bonding with alienated stepkids. 1:05

26d ago1:05

1:05

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Parental alienation affects your stepkid’s ability to form loving bonds… including bonding with their stepparent. Alienated kids can develop a specific set of characteristics that also make them hard to warm up to... like acting cold, rejecting you & your partner, lying between houses, and many more than I could shar…

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Stepparenting burnout. 1:03

27d ago1:03

1:03

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Stepparents, if you're feeling stressed out and frazzled, please know that you're allowed to TAKE. A STEP. BACK. Burning yourself out only makes it that much harder to stay grounded and sane. Two things you kinda sorta really need if you wanna to keep your head above water while you're blending your family! We live i…

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Navigating Legal Issues and Going Back to Court in Blended Families 16:51

27d ago16:51

16:51

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Family podcast, Scott and Vanessa explore the complex legal challenges faced by blended families, including child custody modifications, visitation rights, co-parenting struggles and more. Whether you are going through or preparing for a legal dispute, this practical advice, rooted in both faith and profession…

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Finding stepparenting support. 1:38

28d ago1:38

1:38

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) For inexplicable reasons, many of the people around stepparents seem to think that we shouldn’t feel stressed or overwhelmed by this role just because we chose this — because we knew our partners had kids. When a person feels stressed about starting a new job, no one says "Well, you applied for this position. YOU kne…

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Can’t win over your stepkid? 2:13

29d ago2:13

2:13

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Again and again and again I'd try to win my stepkid over. I followed all the usual stepparenting advice: show an interest in their interests, take it slow, try not to take their rejection personally. And nada. Zilch. Nothing. I started getting desperate. I thought I could get her to like me if I acted differently. So…

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Stepkids need parenting. 1:27

30d ago1:27

1:27

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) It shouldn’t be a newsflash to say kids of divorce still need parenting… AND YET, that is the topic of today’s pep talk. A child's parents not being together anymore does not negate the reality that kids need structure. They need a regular routine. They need guidance from the adults around them. All of this helps kid…

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Self-Healing 101: How to Become Your Own Personal Wellness Guru (Without the Guru) 38:16

1M ago38:16

38:16

✨ Ever wish you could unlock your inner wellness guru without chanting mantras in the mountains or living off kale smoothies forever? 🧘‍♀️ In this episode of LIFING 101, we’re diving into the wild world of self-healing! No crystals or incense required (unless you’re into that). We’re talking practical, and downright doable tips to help […] The post…

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You don’t have to prove yourself. 1:16

1M ago1:16

1:16

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) It's human nature to want to defend yourself against false accusations, fight for equality and justice, and right the wrongs you see. It's also human nature to think to yourself "If I can just show them that I'm not the bad guy" and believe that'll somehow fix everything. But you don’t have to prove yourself to the e…

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Stepparenting feels hard because it’s hard. 1:29

1M ago1:29

1:29

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Stepparenting in a nutshell reads like one long list of confusing contradictions. You’re supposed to be involved, but not so much so you’re overstepping. You need to give your stepkids space, but not so much that it seems like you don’t care. You need to be realistic about the role you’re taking on as a stepparent, y…

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Co-parenting in a toxic cycle. 1:00

1M ago1:00

1:00

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Let me know if this cycle sounds familiar: The ex makes a unilateral co-parenting decision >> that decision interferes with your parenting time or otherwise conflicts with your morals, ethics, and values >> they know this and move ahead anyway >> you decide enough is enough and say you're not going along with it >> t…

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Self-care boundaries for stepparents. 0:54

1M ago0:54

0:54

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) When we've become way too used to compromising our own values, beginning to say no sometimes can feel selfish. Boundaries and self-care can feel selfish. Prioritizing our mental health isn’t selfish, though; it’s us returning to ourselves after way too much time spent erasing our voice in an attempt to keep the peace…

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Marriage After Addiction: Blended Family Success with Eric Kennedy 31:34

1M ago31:34

31:34

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Eric Kennedy, author of Marriage After Addiction: Take Back Your Life Together. Eric shares his inspiring journey from battling addiction to finding faith, recovery, and building a blended family. Learn how he overcame addiction, rebuilt his life through faith, and now helps others navigate the challenges …

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Being a kid person vs. being a stepparent. 1:30

1M ago1:30

1:30

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Has anyone else noticed that way too many stepparenting resources act like stepparents are child-hating morons who have never interacted with a single kid in our lives? I remember reading books that seriously said shit like "Listen, you're dating someone with a kid, so you might have to get used to Friday night socce…

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Stepparents need breaks too! 1:06

1M ago1:06

1:06

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Every parent needs a break from parenting once in a while, and that includes stepparents. Typically, society doesn’t accuse parents who need a break of hating their kids. Yet society loves to imply there’s something wrong with a stepparent who needs a break. Today’s pep talk is to remind you that you’re allowed to ta…

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Bonding problems with stepkids. 1:19

1M ago1:19

1:19

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) The time, energy, and effort you pour into the relationship with your stepkid might not be reciprocated. At least, not yet. Then again, possibly not ever. Or else maybe it'll come back to you and then some! 🤷🏻‍♀️ The point is, you JUST NEVER KNOW which way it's gonna go with your stepkid. And that goes double or trip…

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Stepkids in high conflict. 1:01

1M ago1:01

1:01

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) The ex being high conflict can have a direct impact on how well you’re able to connect with your stepkid. If your stepkid's other home is dysfunctional or abusive, then even their most basic interpretations of love, belonging, or family could be very different from yours. Maybe more different than you’d ever guess. S…

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If your stepkid rejects you… 1:25

1M ago1:25

1:25

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) If your stepkid wants nothing to do with you, please know that's more of a reflection on what you represent to them than it is a commentary on your personality. Your stepkid doesn't care how great you are. All they care is that you represent change, and change feels scary — especially to kids who are still shaken up …

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Getting Physical- The Prescription for Quality Living 34:57

1M ago34:57

34:57

🏋🏽‍♀️Tired of being tired? Ready to trade in couch potato vibes for quality living? In this episode, “Getting Physical- The Prescription for Quality Living”, we’re writing and giving you the ultimate ‘Prescription’—no doctor’s note needed and no co-pay required! Discover how you can boost and transform your mood, boost your energy, and turn ‘ugh’ d…

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When the ex twists the custody order. 1:01

1M ago1:01

1:01

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Custody orders are not a matter of opinion. A parenting plan is an enforceable legal document that protects both parents' legal parenting rights. One parent cannot legally make arbitrary, unilateral decisions that affect the other parent's visitation time; that would be a violation of the custody order. And you have …

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Improving our stepkids’ lives. 1:16

1M ago1:16

1:16

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) One of my biggest stepparenting frustrations was feeling blocked in my ability to make changes for the better in the life of my stepkid. Yet — trying to parent my stepkid ended up causing stress and friction between me and my stepkid AND between me and my partner. And when that happens, it’s probably time to disengag…

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How to Effectively Lead Your Blended Family with Dr. Jon Chasteen 26:35

1M ago26:35

26:35

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott Martindale is joined by friend and special guest Dr. Jon Chasteen, Senior Pastor of Victory Church. Together, they discuss leadership and how to be a "Re-Leader" in your blended family. Learn how to navigate the complexities of trust, patience, and leadership when you’re tasked with fix…

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Does life outside stepparenting even exist? 0:54

1M ago0:54

0:54

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Sometimes we get so wrapped up in stepfamily life that we forget there's a big wide world beyond our blended family bubble. We can try so hard to be good stepparents that we end up losing track of who and what we are outside of our stepparenting role. When we define ourselves only by how much our stepkids like us (or…

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Try to enjoy the absurdity. 1:03

1M ago1:03

1:03

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) We tell our kids that big emotions feel scary, but that’s actually just as true for us grownups. Stepparenting is overwhelming a surprising percentage of the time. No matter how committed you are to building your blended family, you cannot be all in, all the time without some kind of pressure relief valve. Sometimes …

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You are not alone! 1:07

1M ago1:07

1:07

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Today’s pep talk is simple. I just want you to know you are not alone. You're not. As isolated as you may feel, as many cheerleading posts about stepparenting that you might read (and then feel guilty that you don't feel like a cheerleading kinda stepparent), know that stepparenting being hard is also normal. It took…

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High conflict changes the co-parenting rules. 1:21

1M ago1:21

1:21

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) You can’t coparent with someone who won’t compromise. If you're continually bending over backwards trying to make reasonable accommodations while the other co-parent keeps making unilateral decisions and refusing to meet you even close to halfway, I've got news for you: that's not co-parenting. That's you getting man…

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It's okay not to be an instant stepparenting expert. 1:21

2M ago1:21

1:21

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) We all understand that becoming a parent is a major adjustment, yet we expect stepparents to become instant experts in their role. And by “we” I mean society, but also including ourselves. We seem to hold ourselves to this ridiculous standard — like we’re not gonna make mistakes, or there won’t be a learning curve. F…

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Minimize your contact with the ex. 1:49

2M ago1:49

1:49

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) If your partner’s ex is high conflict, limiting how much contact you have with them can also limit the potential for drama. When I saw how ridiculous Dan’s relationship was with his ex, I thought most of the conflict between houses could be pretty easily resolved through clearer communication. I’m a great communicato…

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Stepparenting PTSD? 1:08

2M ago1:08

1:08

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Becoming a stepparent gave me PTSD. And I do mean PTSD in the literal, clinical sense, as in diagnosed by an actual counselor. Living under the constant conflict between houses and never-ending uncertainty of where the next attack might be coming from turned my existing anxiety issues into a full-blown trauma respons…

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How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families 21:33

2M ago21:33

21:33

Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Blended Family Podcast! On this episode, How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale dive deep into one of the biggest challenges in blended families: How to teach values to both biological and stepchildren. Are you struggling to integrate different backgrounds…

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What’d we sign up for again? 1:25

2M ago1:25

1:25

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Knowing Dan had a kid and knowing what I was getting into are two totally different things, it turns out. It’s not that I made the decision to become a stepparent without thinking about it. I honestly thought I knew EXACTLY what I was signing up for, especially since I already had a kid myself. (Famous last words, ri…

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This needs to be a partnership. 0:56

2M ago0:56

0:56

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) One person in a relationship sitting back and expecting the other do all the work is never okay. And that goes double in a stepfamily. I can't believe how many stories I've heard from stepparents who are accused of not doing 'enough' by their partners… and yet their partner, the actual parent, REFUSES TO PARENT. This…

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Your partner’s past. 1:21

2M ago1:21

1:21

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) You can trust your partner completely and still feel jealous of the life they had with their ex. It's normal to feel bummed that you'll never share all those important "firsts" with your partner because they already shared them with someone else. It's normal to feel angry that you'll never enjoy an uncomplicated rela…

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Crazy doesn’t need a reason. 1:25

2M ago1:25

1:25

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) I used to blame myself when Dan's ex would go off the rails, like it was my fault I encouraged him to grow a backbone. Like maybe I never should've tried to create rules and structure for my stepkid. Maybe if I'd just kept my mouth shut, the conflict between houses wouldn't have escalated the way it did. Then I remin…

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Be the change! 1:34

2M ago1:34

1:34

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) If you're a stepparent feeling frustrated, stuck, or unhappy, change for the better is absolutely possible. But it's probably not gonna come from the direction you think it is. We keep waiting for our stepkids or partners or the ex to change so our lives become easier. We get increasingly frustrated when no one seems…

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Moving past the anger. 2:02

2M ago2:02

2:02

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) Let's talk about your partner’s ex for a sec. Anyone else gotten wayyy too obsessed with the ex for their own good?? 🙋🏻‍♀️ That was definitely me. Man anger is a tough emotion to shake. Especially when the ex is causing so much drama that you feel like you never get a damn break from their presence overtaking your en…

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Stepkid problem? Or partner problem? 1:42

2M ago1:42

1:42

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) I found it tough to connect with my stepkid, especially in our early years. She came across as entitled. She spoke in a cutesy baby voice almost constantly. She had terrible manners, including frequently being rude to me. I’m embarrassed to admit how long I thought this was a problem with her. It literally took years…

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Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families with Pastor Wade Smith 26:25

2M ago26:25

26:25

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families, Scott is joined by Pastor Wade Smith, the Executive Pastor at Victory Church, to discuss the critical role of community within the church. They dive deep into why small groups are essential for growth, especially in today's content-driven world, and how intent…

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Making stepparents into scapegoats. 0:58

2M ago0:58

0:58

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) As the newest members of our stepfamilies, stepparents are the outsiders, which means it's easier for us to see any dysfunction or unhealthy patterns that have been invisible to everyone else. That's why, when we bring up issues that concerns us, we're told there either isn't a problem, or it's just OUR problem. Like…

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Stepparents are allowed to have boundaries. 1:00

2M ago1:00

1:00

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) "No" is a complete sentence. And it's a sentence stepparents are allowed to say. It really is okay if you don't want to drop everything to watch your stepkids when your partner decided to change the visitation schedule at the last minute and didn't check with you first. It's also okay if you choose not to attend yet …

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When stepparenting feels tough. 1:21

2M ago1:21

1:21

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) A lot of folks act like stepparenting is easy. If it’s easy for them, that’s great. But stepparenting being hard for you doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong. So many books and articles I read in my early stepmom days made it sound like there'd be this brief adjustment period and then we'd all be BFFs. So I thought, fe…

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Parental alienation & wanting to give up. 2:15

2M ago2:15

2:15

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!) At first I thought my stepkid just had terrible manners or a bad attitude. TBH, those might be true too. But after years of this with no improvement and actually seeing her behavior get suddenly worse, I finally realized my stepkid was being super shitty to me & Dan on purpose; she wanted to drive us away. And that i…

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