Prisoners of the Mind—Why Suffering is Up to You: A Dharma Talk with Dr. Cheryl

Sex, Love & Elephants with Dr. Cheryl

Dr. Cheryl, how can I be happier in my circumstances?

Why is my anxiety so overpowering?

How can I stop obsessing about the future?

What’s the cause of happiness? Could you be happier in a prison than you'd be in a monastery? And if we're accepting where we are, no matter good or bad, doesn't that mean that we're free?

Today’s episode of Sex, Love, and Elephants features a Dharma Talk centered around suffering and why so much of our mental hardships are a choice that we make.

Have you ever felt at times like you can't get out of an emotional state of anxiety or worry? Even when you know that much of it is a story and a lot of it is casting worry about the future? Even when you know that it’s something you'll be able to pivot and cope through? If you’ve answered yes, there’s no reason to be ashamed. There are times when we all fall prey to thinking like this.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• This too shall pass (06:11)
• Whether your in prison or paradise, your attitude is your choice (28:24)
• We all have self-imposed labels that stop us from being free (30:54)
• Beliefs are simply understandings that make sense based on what we currently know (47:37)
• We often find ourselves in the prison of the past or the prison of the future (51:29]

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource!

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