70: How social media is turning you against your partner

The Anxious Love Coach

In this episode, I share how polarizing, black-and-white content on social media is pinning people against each other. I will also admit that I fell prey to this and started a fight with my husband before recording this episode. I also share what I learned from it and how I plan to do better.

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Time Stamps:

6:50 The fights that my husband and I have had

10:25 Some of the messages I’ve received about men from social media

15:59 The fight that we had today

22:45 How your pain can activate your partner’s pain

24:00 The importance of taking space when needed during arguments

31:50 The overwhelming fear of getting the short end of the stick in relationships

34:00 Nuanced content does not get attention on social media

36:55 Keeping the assumption that your partner loves you more than anything

41:00 Learning how to better have arguments