Transparently Speaking podcast

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What happens when a name becomes a risk factor? In this episode, we explore the emotional toll of parenting transgender children in a time of heightened scrutiny, the delicate balance between advocacy and safety, and the exhaustion of constantly weighing the risks of visibility. How do families decide when to speak up and when to stay quiet during a child's transition? And what does it mean to reset expectations with self-compassion in uncertain times? Listen in as we unpack these challenges and consider what it means to protect, support, and sustain ourselves in the face of ongoing uncertainty. If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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4 Executive Orders later… How are we? (#91) 26:23

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Diana and Joy share how they are navigating their anxiety associated with the current political environment. Since the 47th President's inauguration there have been 4 Executive Orders focused on transgender people (youth especially). In this episode, join us to hear how Diana is setting boundaries in offering support to other families and how she is finding space for joy, and how both moms explore the concept of trust as they question the level of support they have from friends and acquaintances. Joy also shares her plan and path to resist, as her family continues to support Samantha to live and play her sport as if nothing has changed. By listening, you are joining us in stepping into advocacy, education, and resistance - and for that, we are grateful. 4 Executive Orders: https://www.whitehouse.gov/presidential-actions/2025/01/defending-women-from-gender-ideology-extremism-and-restoring-biological-truth-to-the-federal-government/ https://www.whitehouse.gov/presidential-actions/2025/01/protecting-children-from-chemical-and-surgical-mutilation/ https://www.whitehouse.gov/presidential-actions/2025/01/ending-radical-indoctrination-in-k-12-schooling/ https://www.whitehouse.gov/presidential-actions/2025/02/keeping-men-out-of-womens-sports/ Additional Resources: How Trump's policies target transgender people How the Binary Sex EO Ignores Science Trump’s Anti-Trans Attacks Won’t Stop With Us The Government is Erasing Trans People from American History If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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What Now? The Executive Order Targeting Trans Youth and Medical Care (#90) 27:48

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The latest executive order banning gender-affirming care for anyone under 19 has sent shockwaves through families with transgender children. In this episode of Transparently Speaking , Diana and Joy share their raw and honest reactions—from shock and anger to the looming fear of what comes next. How will this order impact hospitals, physicians, and the future of care for trans youth? What can parents do to fight back? And how do we protect our kids in the face of such overwhelming uncertainty? This conversation is a call to awareness, action, and community. If you’re feeling lost or scared, you are not alone. Listen in as we navigate the fallout of this executive order together. Resources Mentioned: Erin in the Morning (erininthemorning.com) Parents of Trans Youth (Instagram or parentsoftransyouth.com) Local LGBTQ+ community centers PFLAG chapters Legal aid organizations at county courthouses Contacting your senators/representatives If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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Fears Coming to Life (#89) 18:29

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As the inauguration looms less than a week away, Diana and Joy reflect on their biggest fears and how they are currently thinking and preparing to face challenges. After this recording was complete, the House Bill, "Protection of Women and Girls in Sports Act" passed 218-206; if passed into law, this legislation would amend Title IX to ban transgender girls and women from sports in federally funded schools. If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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Preparing Our Transgender Families for January 20th (#88) 27:16

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As January 20th approaches, many families with transgender children face uncertainty, fear, and the need to prepare for possible changes. In this episode, Diana and Joy discuss the steps they’ve taken to safeguard their children, including creating safe folders, updating documents, and navigating the current political climate. They also reflect on the emotional toll of recent events, share moments of resilience, and highlight the importance of supporting organizations like Lambda Legal, ACLU, and NCLR. For families, this episode offers a sense of solidarity and practical advice. For allies, it’s a call to action to support transgender families in these trying times. Hope still gleams, even in unexpected places, reminding us that progress can prevail. If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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Catching up & Happy Holidays (#87) 20:00

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In episode 87, Joy and Diana share key updates, including: Clark's first vote, Samanta's doctor's response to insurance denial and final decisions, navigating an inadvertent sharing of Samantha's medical procedure, and ongoing challenges with preferred names and pronouns at the Children's hospital. If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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Reflection on episode #83: Letting Go of Clark (#86) 30:23

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In this heartfelt episode, Diana & Joy reflect on Diana's recent conversation with Clark from episode 83, offering an intimate look into her journey as a parent of a transgender young adult. From the wisdom Clark shared about navigating disclosure and safety to the bittersweet experience of letting go as a parent, this episode explores the complexities of growth, identity, and love. Diana & Joy revisit key moments from Diana's discussion with Clark, including his thoughtful advice for young transgender individuals, his awareness of challenges faced by those in unsafe environments, and his clarity about living authentically while setting boundaries. These reflections underscore how much he’s grown—and how ready he is to face the world on his own terms. This episode is also about learning to release control and embracing the present moment. As Diana shares the emotional highs and lows of their cross-country trip and Clark’s transition to a new phase of life, Diana & Joy remind listeners that while the journey may not always be perfect, it often leads to better, richer experiences and deeper understanding. If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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Post Election Reflections (#85) 37:04

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Following the 2024 Presidential election, Diana and Joy reflect on the results and share insights about their families' personal reactions and responses upon learning that Trump will be president in 2025. The discussion includes a reflection upon biggest concerns and how they are navigating next steps. Resources mentioned include a reference to Erin Reed's "Erin in the Morning" journalism and FreeMomHugs.org. If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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Why Your Vote Matters: Voting, Misinformation, and Protecting Our Families (#84) 25:33

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In the lead-up to Election Day, Diana and Joy discuss the escalating impact of political misinformation—particularly surrounding transgender rights. With personal stories and clear-eyed insights, they explore the emotional toll of anti-trans rhetoric in media, the role of misinformation in shaping public perception, and the essential need to vote. This episode is a call to action, encouraging listeners to make their voices heard, support truth over fear, and stand firm against disinformation. Diana and Joy’s candid reflections underscore how every vote impacts families, truth, and the rights of marginalized communities. If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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Clark Speaks: Reflections on Transition and Identity (#83) 28:49

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In this special episode of Transparently Speaking , we have a first-time guest: Clark. After sharing stories about him for so long, we are excited to present Clark's own voice as he opens up about his transition journey, his identity, and his thoughts on the challenges and triumphs he’s faced. Clark reflects on his childhood, discusses navigating life as a transgender man, and offers his insights on issues like misgendering, the importance of safe environments, and what he hopes for the future of transgender rights. Tune in to hear Clark’s perspective on what it means to be himself, how he approaches relationships and community, and his advice for transgender and nonbinary kids just starting their journeys. This is an episode full of heart, honesty, and powerful insights—don’t miss it! If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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Navigating They/Them Pronouns (and family communication) (#82) 26:20

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We're excited to invite Sophie back in Episode 82. Join Joy and Sophie in exploring parental roles and responsibilities in communicating preferred pronouns and navigating extended family understanding (in Alex’s case, in advance of a 1:1 ten day trip with their Aunt, who doesn’t yet know Alex is nonbinary). Also, in this episode, Sophie names her (and our generation’s) challenge in having minimal visible adult nonbinary role models. Sophie also references a helpful book: A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns (Quick & Easy Guides) , by Archie Bongiovanni and Tristan Jimerson. NOTE: Joy has several pronoun misses in this episode (referring to Alex as ‘he/him’); It’s a journey for all of us! If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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Cancelled for the Safety of Transgender/Nonbinary Children (#81) 26:46

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In this episode, Joy and Diana discuss the unexpected cancellation of a conference for families with transgender and non-binary children. Five days before it was set to occur, the conference was called off for security reasons. They explore the implications of this disruption, the emotional and physical safety concerns it raised, and the broader societal context impacting transgender support events. They also examine the personal experiences of their own families, the resilience of their children, and the ongoing importance of advocacy and community. If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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Values and boundaries (#80) 20:50

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Diana shares a specific challenge she's facing as she discovers an organization she enjoys working with is not currently open to conversation around gender identity. Join us in Episode #80 as Diana and Joy explore how values drive boundaries and influence the ways in which we choose to engage. If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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Navigating Club Sports as a (Non-Disclosed) Transgender Athlete 29:37

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Join Diana and Joy as they discuss the ongoing journey of supporting Samantha, a transgender athlete, in youth sports. This episode explores the importance of maintaining Samantha's privacy while ensuring her right to play. Hear their insights and correspondence with regional authorities to navigate these evolving policies. If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d take a moment to provide us with a review; the more listeners and reviews, the more people we can reach and support. As always, feel free to reach out to us at transparentlyspeakingpodcast@gmail.com .…

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Introducing Sophie and Alex (#78) 33:49

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