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Host Francesca Amiker sits down with directors Joe and Anthony Russo, producer Angela Russo-Otstot, stars Millie Bobby Brown and Chris Pratt, and more to uncover how family was the key to building the emotional core of The Electric State . From the Russos’ own experiences growing up in a large Italian family to the film’s central relationship between Michelle and her robot brother Kid Cosmo, family relationships both on and off of the set were the key to bringing The Electric State to life. Listen to more from Netflix Podcasts . State Secrets: Inside the Making of The Electric State is produced by Netflix and Treefort Media.…

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Counselors, coaches and sober companions help hundreds of thousands of people affected by Addictions and Mental Health issues each year. Learn about the current research and practical counseling tools to improve your skills and provide the best possible services. Counselor Toolbox targets counselors, coaches and companions, but can also provide useful counseling self-help tools for persons struggling with these issues and their loved ones. AllCEUs is an approved counseling continuing education provider for addiction and mental health counselors in most states. Counseling CEUs are available for each episode.

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1059-Overcoming the scars of ACEs and parental alienation 44:17

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Parental Alienation Defined Parental alienation is not abandonment or protecting a child from abuse; it is a form of psychological abuse. It involves a deliberate campaign of denigration, brainwashing, and manipulation of the child to reject the other parent. Alienating Behaviors Alienation occurs when one parent actively manipulates a child against the other parent, which can be unconscious or conscious. These behaviors involve brainwashing, manipulating, or lying to the child, often supported by family members or other influential figures in the child’s life. The Impact on Children Parental alienation disrupts children’s primary attachment bonds, causing deep psychological harm. Children may develop symptoms like Stockholm syndrome, where they begin to rationalize the alienating parent’s behavior and vilify the targeted parent. Alienation as an Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE) Parental alienation is considered psychological abuse, one of the categories of ACEs. It often coexists with other forms of trauma, such as witnessing abuse of the targeted parent, resulting in compounded trauma. Long-term Psychological and Physical Effects The chronic stress of alienation can lead to developmental delays, emotional dysregulation, autoimmune issues, and sleep disturbances. Alienated children often exhibit hypervigilance, impulsivity, and distorted thinking patterns, which affect their relationships and behavior in adulthood. Types of Alienating Parents Alienating parents may have their own psychological issues, including codependency, narcissistic tendencies, antisocial traits, or borderline personality disorder. They often manipulate children out of their fear of rejection, unresolved trauma, or a need to control. Interventions for Healing Interventions include creating a sense of safety for the child, addressing internalized negative beliefs, and helping the child develop secure attachments. Therapy should focus on grieving the loss of the parental relationship and addressing guilt from the manipulation. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1058-Overcoming Defensiveness_ The Key to Active Listening 1:01:06

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What is Defensiveness? Defensiveness occurs when individuals feel emotionally or psychologically unsafe, leading them to put up barriers in communication. It can manifest as fight (verbal aggression) or flight (withdrawing and shutting down). Defensiveness often indicates past experiences of betrayal, disrespect, or invalidation that leave people on guard. Causes of Defensiveness Traumatic experiences or past emotional injuries. Triggers from discussing sensitive or difficult topics. Hypervigilance, where individuals expect others to hurt or criticize them, based on prior negative interactions. How Defensiveness Shows Up in Communication Aggressive responses like "Yes, but…" , which aim to shut down feedback. Violation of boundaries, where defensive individuals invalidate others' thoughts and feelings to protect themselves. Resistance to feedback or unwillingness to listen and engage, often resulting in emotional shutdown. Impact of Defensiveness Breaks down communication, creating a barrier to resolving conflicts. Triggers others to respond defensively, escalating tension in personal or professional settings. Damages interpersonal relationships by conveying a lack of respect or empathy. Vulnerabilities That Lead to Defensiveness Physical conditions (pain, exhaustion) can increase irritability and defensiveness. Emotional states like anxiety, stress, or feeling overwhelmed make individuals more prone to defensive reactions. Environmental triggers, such as being criticized in front of peers, can make people feel attacked or embarrassed. Strategies to Reduce Defensiveness Mindfulness : Stay grounded and recognize defensive feelings before reacting. Active Listening : Validate others’ perspectives and try to understand their point of view. Boundaries : Set clear emotional and interpersonal boundaries to ensure respectful communication. Reframing : Shift focus from taking feedback personally to understanding that criticism is about behaviors, not personal worth. Managing Defensiveness in Others Approach defensive individuals with empathy and curiosity. Encourage open and respectful dialogue by providing a safe space to express feelings without judgment. Avoid pushing for agreement on sensitive topics—sometimes, agreeing to disagree is the healthiest option. Breaking the Cycle of Defensiveness Focus on objective facts rather than emotions when discussing issues. Use "I" statements to express feelings without blaming others. Practice self-regulation techniques, like deep breathing or taking breaks during heated discussions, to prevent defensive escalation. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1057-A Trauma Informed Approach to Creating Safety 1:09:52

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Understanding Psychodynamics and Safety The presentation begins with a focus on psychodynamics, particularly how early experiences of trauma impact one’s sense of safety. Trauma can manifest in emotional, physical, and cognitive symptoms that disrupt everyday life, relationships, and well-being. Effects of Trauma on Health Trauma increases inflammation, disrupts sleep, and contributes to autoimmune disorders. Chronic feelings of unsafety can result in a constant state of hypervigilance, impacting both physical and emotional health. Identifying Unsafe Feelings Individuals can feel unsafe in various domains, including physical, interpersonal, and emotional. Feelings of vulnerability can arise from numerous contexts, like work, home, or social settings. Emotional vulnerability includes situations where individuals fear rejection or criticism, impacting their ability to feel secure. The Role of the Inner Critic People often internalize negative messages from others, leading to an overactive inner critic. Helping clients examine these internalized messages and their origins can improve emotional resilience and self-compassion. Effects of ADHD and Other Disorders Conditions such as ADHD, when undiagnosed, can lead to feelings of rejection and criticism, further contributing to trauma. Mental health issues can both cause and result from trauma, creating a cycle of unsafety and helplessness. Physical and Cognitive Symptoms of Trauma Trauma can lead to physical symptoms like GI distress and increased pain sensitivity due to heightened nervous system activity. Cognitive symptoms include difficulties with concentration, decision-making, and distinguishing between past and present threats. Mindfulness and Safety Strategies Mindfulness and grounding techniques help individuals differentiate between past trauma and present safety. Creating a safe physical and emotional environment is essential for reducing trauma-related stress responses. The Importance of Boundaries Setting and maintaining healthy physical, emotional, and interpersonal boundaries is crucial for trauma survivors to feel safe. Recognizing and moderating triggers in various environments (work, home, relationships) helps reduce feelings of unsafety. Interpersonal Relationships Trauma can lead to difficulties in trusting others or feeling secure in relationships. People may develop coping mechanisms like clinginess or avoidance. Rebuilding trust in oneself and others is a key aspect of trauma recovery. Rewiring the Nervous System Healing from trauma involves retraining the nervous system to feel safe in previously triggering situations. Techniques like vagus nerve stimulation, slow breathing, and relaxation exercises can help reduce hypervigilance and anxiety. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1056-ACEs Childhood Trauma's Lifelong Effects 26:50

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Types of Trauma in Childhood Childhood trauma can be intentional (abuse, neglect) or unintentional (caregivers unable to meet the child's needs due to issues like depression or addiction). Trauma affects children physically, emotionally, cognitively, and relationally, causing a sense of insecurity and powerlessness. Physical and Emotional Trauma Physical trauma includes abuse or neglect, while emotional trauma involves lack of emotional validation or support, which hinders a child's emotional development. Emotional neglect prevents children from learning to identify, regulate, and cope with their feelings. Cognitive Trauma and Environmental Disruption Cognitive trauma can result from gaslighting or parental alienation. Environmental trauma occurs when a child experiences sudden, drastic changes such as losing their home or a stable living situation. Impact of Trauma on Different Stages of Childhood In early childhood, children lack the skills to survive on their own, leading to a profound sense of disempowerment when their needs are not met. During adolescence, children gain more independence but still seek guidance, and trauma can severely impact their emotional regulation and impulse control. Egocentric and Concrete Thinking in Children Young children use egocentric, all-or-nothing, emotion-based reasoning. They cannot distinguish that a caregiver's actions are unrelated to their own worthiness. This thinking leads to personalization, where children believe their needs are unmet because they are unlovable. Trauma's Effect on the Brain and Body Childhood trauma alters brain development and body responses, leading to hypervigilance, emotional dysregulation, and chronic stress. Trauma survivors are at greater risk for stress-related illnesses and mental health issues later in life. Emotional and Behavioral Symptoms Trauma survivors often struggle with impulsivity, anxiety, depression, and difficulty regulating emotions. Emotional dysregulation results in either flat or extreme reactions, and trauma may lead to impulsivity or behaviors mimicking ADHD symptoms. Healing and Reprogramming the Brain Healing involves reducing physical and emotional stress, learning distress tolerance skills, and using fact-based reasoning to counter emotion-based reactions. Trauma survivors must work on recalibrating their nervous system to reduce hypervigilance and build a sense of safety and empowerment. Addressing Cognitive Distortions Survivors must confront cognitive distortions like personalization and overgeneralization, which perpetuate fear and helplessness. Reframing these thoughts and focusing on the present context is essential for recovery. Developing Boundaries and Self-Trust Trauma survivors often struggle with boundaries and trust due to past experiences of neglect or control. Building mindful awareness of personal needs and asserting boundaries is crucial for emotional healing and relationship development. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1055-20 Essential Mindfulness Tools in My Arsenal to Defeat Anxiety 43:46

há 23 dias43:46

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Introduction to Anxiety Relief Strategies Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes presents 20 strategies to help alleviate anxiety, focusing on individualized approaches based on intake assessments. It's important to address anxiety before it reaches a crisis point, as early intervention can prevent escalation. Understanding Anxiety Triggers Anxiety triggers can stem from concerns like loss, rejection, failure, or lack of control. Dr. Snipes emphasizes the importance of identifying these triggers and grouping them to understand the core issues driving anxiety. Vulnerabilities to Anxiety Vulnerabilities are factors that make individuals more susceptible to anxiety, such as poor sleep, caffeine intake, or stress from relationships. It's crucial to systematically address these vulnerabilities through lifestyle adjustments and coping strategies. Cognitive and Emotional Techniques Cognitive vulnerabilities, such as negative thinking patterns, contribute to anxiety. Learning to identify and reframe these thoughts helps reduce anxious responses. Emotional regulation techniques like mindfulness and distress tolerance aid in managing emotional triggers effectively. Body-Based Interventions Muscle tension, fatigue, and restlessness are physical symptoms of anxiety that can be alleviated with strategies like stretching, progressive muscle relaxation, and proper sleep hygiene. Exercise and physical activity also play a key role in managing anxiety by boosting endorphins and reducing muscle tension. Coping Strategies for Restlessness and Irritability Restlessness and irritability are common in anxiety, and Dr. Snipes suggests strategies like breathing exercises and setting healthy boundaries in relationships to manage these symptoms. Identifying environmental triggers that cause restlessness, such as overstimulation, helps in reducing these feelings. Sleep Hygiene and Nutrition Good sleep is critical for anxiety management. Dr. Snipes recommends establishing regular sleep routines, reducing screen time, and addressing underlying issues like pain or hormonal imbalances that affect sleep quality. Nutrition also plays a role, with a focus on balanced diets rich in vitamins and minerals to support neurotransmitter function and reduce anxiety. Mindfulness and Reframing Techniques Mindfulness exercises, including body scans, focused breathing, and open awareness, help individuals stay present and reduce anxiety. Reframing negative or distorted thoughts, such as "catastrophizing" or "all-or-nothing" thinking, aids in creating a more balanced and realistic perspective on stressful situations. Developing Healthy Boundaries and Assertiveness Establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries is essential for reducing interpersonal anxiety. Assertiveness training helps individuals express their needs without feeling overwhelmed or disrespected in relationships. Building a Resilient Mindset Fostering resilience involves creating a rich and meaningful life vision, accepting difficult situations, and using energy purposefully to pursue personal goals. Tragic optimism, which acknowledges both the good and bad in life while maintaining hope, is a key factor in overcoming adversity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1054-Demystifying Trauma Responses 12 Signs of PTSD You May Not Know 32:04

há 27 dias32:04

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Trauma vs. Traumatic Injury Trauma is an event that causes a sense of helplessness and horror. Traumatic injury refers to the physical, emotional, cognitive, and interpersonal effects of trauma. Not everyone who experiences trauma develops PTSD or complex PTSD (CPTSD). Symptoms Often Misdiagnosed Conditions like ADHD, anxiety, and addiction are often misdiagnosed when they are actually symptoms of unresolved trauma. Understanding the root cause of these conditions helps tailor treatment to address trauma. Trauma in Childhood vs. Adulthood Childhood trauma, especially in chaotic or abusive households, can have lasting effects on attachment styles and emotional regulation in adulthood. Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) such as abuse, neglect, and abandonment significantly impact mental health. Hypervigilance and Executive Dysfunction Trauma survivors are often hypervigilant, constantly scanning for threats, which can impair their ability to concentrate and problem-solve. This can mimic symptoms of ADHD, making it difficult to diagnose correctly. Emotional Dysregulation and Anger Trauma often leads to emotional dysregulation, where individuals respond with exaggerated emotions or anger to minor stressors. This can be a learned response from childhood, where the fight-or-flight mechanism is over-activated. Cognitive and Sensory Effects Trauma survivors may experience sensory hypersensitivity, such as being overly alert to sounds, smells, and visual triggers that remind them of past trauma. They may also struggle with recognizing and labeling emotions, making emotional regulation even more challenging. Attachment Trauma and Relationship Issues Trauma, especially attachment trauma, can lead to avoidance or anxiety in relationships. Some survivors may withdraw from social situations, while others may be hypersensitive to rejection and constantly seek validation. Impact on Physical Health Trauma affects the body's stress response system (HPA axis), leading to issues like inflammation, cardiovascular disease, and autoimmune disorders. Chronic stress also impairs the immune system, increasing the risk of various health problems like diabetes and heart disease. Sleep Problems Trauma disrupts circadian rhythms, leading to insomnia or sleep disorders like sleep apnea. These sleep problems exacerbate mental health conditions, making recovery from trauma even more difficult. Emotional Numbing and Depression Emotional numbing, apathy, and depression are common in trauma survivors, often making it difficult for them to experience joy or motivation. Chronic stress impairs the brain's ability to respond to pleasure and excitement, contributing to long-term mental health issues. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1053-Revolutionizing Opioid and Trauma Treatment with Neurostimulation 58:32

há 29 dias58:32

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Introduction to Neurostimulation in Recovery Neurostimulation techniques, like vagus nerve stimulation (VNS) , have been researched for their role in treating neurological diseases, including addiction and trauma-related disorders. Dr. Navid Kodaparash shares his insights into how neuroplasticity, triggered through VNS, helps the brain recover and adapt. Autonomic Nervous System and Its Role The autonomic nervous system consists of the sympathetic (fight-or-flight) and parasympathetic (rest-and-digest) systems, which work in tandem to regulate stress responses. Dysregulation of this system, especially in chronic stress or trauma, can lead to conditions like PTSD, anxiety, and addiction. Vagus Nerve: The Wandering Nerve The vagus nerve is crucial for regulating the parasympathetic nervous system. It's known as the "wandering nerve" because it connects multiple organs in the body. Stimulating the vagus nerve can promote a calming effect, reducing heart rate and helping the body relax. Vagal Tone and Stress Regulation Poor vagal tone refers to reduced parasympathetic activity, leading to higher stress and anxiety levels. Improving vagal tone can enhance overall emotional regulation. Techniques like breathing exercises and auricular vagus nerve stimulation can help improve vagal tone over time. Neurostimulation for Addiction and Trauma Chronic stress and trauma predispose individuals to self-medicate with substances like opioids, leading to addiction. Neurostimulation techniques, including auricular vagus nerve stimulation (aVNS) , show promise in reducing symptoms of post-acute withdrawal syndrome (PAWS) and anxiety during recovery from opioid use disorder. Non-Invasive VNS Non-invasive VNS techniques, like ear stimulation , can offer similar benefits to implanted devices without requiring surgery. These methods have shown success in managing stress, trauma, and addiction recovery. Clinical Trials and Treatment Sparrow biomedical devices are currently being researched for their effectiveness in treating opioid withdrawal and chronic pain management . Trials have demonstrated the efficacy of VNS in reducing withdrawal symptoms and shortening recovery times for patients suffering from opioid dependency. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1052-Expert tips for setting and maintaining boundaries in relationships 29:47

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Defining Boundaries Boundaries are behaviors that communicate what we will and will not tolerate from others. Think of boundaries as a door to your safe space that you control—deciding whom to let in or out. Types of Boundaries Physical Boundaries : Cover personal space, touch, and eye contact preferences. Affective Boundaries : Reflect the ability to empathize without being consumed by others' emotions. Cognitive Boundaries : Allow individuals to maintain their own beliefs and perceptions. Environmental Boundaries : Relate to personal belongings, space, and time shared with others. Relationship Boundaries : Define who you choose to spend time with and how you engage with them. The Impact of Healthy Boundaries Healthy boundaries make you feel safer and more supported, helping reduce stress, improve immunity, and enhance emotional well-being. They contribute to better sleep, less anxiety, and improved cognitive clarity by reducing external interference. Evaluating Boundaries Periodically evaluate your boundaries to ensure they are appropriate. They should not be too rigid or too weak. Overly rigid boundaries can lead to isolation, while weak boundaries can overwhelm you with others' issues and demands. Handling Boundary Violations When boundaries are violated, it’s important to assertively communicate your needs and set limits. You have the power to refuse to rescue or enable harmful behaviors and to protect your emotional and physical space. Types of Boundary Violators Benign Strangers : People you may not know well, but who do not pose immediate threats. You can engage with them cautiously, possibly learning from them. Burglars : Narcissists, sociopaths, or manipulative people who try to rob you of self-worth, confidence, and sometimes material things. Children : Those who respond immaturely to not getting their way, throwing tantrums until they get what they want. Boundary Maintenance Keep an eye on how your boundaries evolve in relationships. Boundaries with trusted people may become more open, while those with untrustworthy individuals should remain firm. Use assertiveness to communicate your boundaries clearly, ensuring others understand your limits and respecting their own. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1051-Addiction Counselor's Guide to the Neuroscience of Stimulants 1:00:40

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Introduction to Stimulants Stimulants affect the neurological system by altering neurotransmitter levels. Key neurotransmitters impacted include dopamine, serotonin, norepinephrine, GABA, glutamate, and acetylcholine. Dopamine’s Role in Addiction Dopamine regulates movement, motivation, and mood. It plays a major role in the brain's reward pathways, which can reinforce addictive behaviors. Stimulants increase dopamine release, creating feelings of pleasure and reinforcing drug use. Stimulant Effects on the Nervous System Stimulants trigger the stress response, causing a release of norepinephrine, dopamine, and cortisol. This results in heightened focus, energy, and mood regulation, but also leads to issues such as agitation and potential cardiovascular effects. Tolerance and Dependency Over time, the body can become tolerant to stimulants, requiring higher doses for the same effect. Psychological and physiological dependency can develop, leading to withdrawal symptoms such as fatigue, depression, and cravings. Commonly Abused Stimulants Caffeine, nicotine, cocaine, methamphetamines, and prescription ADHD medications like methylphenidate are among the most commonly abused stimulants. These substances vary in potency and half-life, but all can cause significant neurological and physical effects when misused. Withdrawal and Detox Withdrawal symptoms from stimulants can include depression, irritability, fatigue, and drug cravings. Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (PAWS) may last for weeks or months, requiring ongoing support and monitoring during recovery. Impact of Stimulants on Mental Health Chronic stimulant use can lead to paranoia, anxiety, and even psychotic symptoms in some cases. Long-term use also impacts the body's ability to regulate stress, contributing to systemic inflammation and reduced immunity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1050-Mastering Healthy Relationship Boundaries 7:16

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Definition of Boundaries Boundaries in relationships are like a house: you choose who enters and how far they can go. Just like a house has doors and windows, you decide who to let into your personal space (physically and emotionally). Types of Boundaries Physical Boundaries : Involves personal space, touch, and eye contact. Interpersonal Boundaries : Defines relationship expectations, such as time alone or together. Emotional & Cognitive Boundaries : You are entitled to your own feelings and thoughts, without needing validation from others. Environmental Boundaries : Pertains to personal belongings and who has access to them. Trust and Boundaries Trust develops gradually, and boundaries adjust accordingly, whether with your physical space, emotions, or belongings. The more trust you have in someone, the more you're likely to share deeper aspects of yourself. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1049-Mastering Trauma-Informed Screening and Assessment _ Counselor CEUs 1:05:58

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Importance of Trauma-Informed Screening Screening must be trauma-informed, even if not directly screening for trauma. Trauma is at the core of many mental health, behavioral, and physical health problems, so it's crucial to recognize its role. Trauma and Health Problems Trauma, including Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs), can contribute to a range of health issues, such as hypothyroidism, depression, and autoimmune disorders. Screening should address both the physical symptoms and the underlying trauma-related causes. Screening and Prevention Early trauma screening helps prevent additional related issues, such as PTSD, addiction, or chronic health conditions. Recognizing the signs of trauma early on improves treatment outcomes by addressing root causes of symptoms. 16 Principles of Trauma-Informed Care These principles emphasize safety, empowerment, and collaboration in clinical settings. It's essential to create environments that feel safe and controlled for patients, especially those with trauma histories. Trauma's Broad Impact Trauma affects a person physically, emotionally, interpersonally, cognitively, and spiritually. It's important to address trauma holistically to prevent revictimization and improve overall treatment outcomes. Environmental Sensitivity Clinical environments can unknowingly trigger trauma survivors (e.g., locked doors, security measures). Being sensitive to such triggers can help patients feel more in control and less threatened. Addressing Trauma Symptoms Symptoms of trauma, such as hypervigilance, difficulty concentrating, and emotional regulation issues, can mimic other disorders like ADHD or anxiety. It's important to identify the trauma-related causes to provide effective treatment. Intergenerational Trauma Trauma often perpetuates across generations, with parents passing their unresolved trauma to their children. Addressing trauma through early screening and prevention can help break this cycle. Screening for Trauma Screening can be conducted by various professionals, not just licensed clinicians. Simple screening questions can help identify trauma-related issues and prompt further evaluation. Creating a Trauma-Informed Environment From the moment a patient contacts the clinic to their interactions with staff, every step should be trauma-informed. Pay attention to patient needs and responses to ensure they feel safe and supported throughout their experience. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1048-Healing the Wounded Inner Child _ Counseling CEUs 1:00:48

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What is the Inner Child? The inner child refers to the emotional and experiential part of an individual that holds childhood memories and trauma. Childhood trauma or unmet needs may result in emotional wounds that persist into adulthood, manifesting in behavior and relationship patterns. Impact of Trauma on the Inner Child Childhood trauma, such as neglect, abandonment, or emotional invalidation, can prevent children from fully processing distressing experiences. Without resolution, these unresolved traumas continue to affect emotional regulation, trust, and self-esteem in adulthood. Behaviors Resulting from a Wounded Inner Child Individuals may develop behaviors like avoidance, temper tantrums, or clinginess to cope with the unresolved fear of rejection or abandonment. These patterns often mimic survival mechanisms learned during childhood to navigate difficult family dynamics. Core Issues Faced by the Wounded Inner Child Common core issues include feelings of unworthiness, fear of abandonment, perfectionism, and a tendency to overcompensate to earn love or acceptance. People with a wounded inner child may struggle with emotional regulation, self-identity, and trusting others in relationships. Reparenting the Inner Child Reparenting is a process where adults provide themselves with the nurturing, validation, and care that their inner child missed during childhood. This involves learning self-compassion, setting healthy boundaries, and developing distress tolerance skills. Strategies for Healing the Inner Child Healing involves acknowledging the wounds of the past, processing unresolved grief, and developing new, healthier ways to cope with emotional triggers. Techniques include mindfulness, self-awareness, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and practices aimed at fostering self-love and resilience. Recognizing Inauthentic and False Selves Individuals may develop inauthentic or false selves to gain approval or avoid rejection. This can manifest in perfectionism, people-pleasing, or suppressing emotions. Healing encourages authenticity, helping individuals reconnect with their true needs, desires, and emotions. Grieving and Letting Go Processing grief related to childhood trauma is a necessary step in healing. It allows individuals to acknowledge and release the pain of unmet needs. Forgiveness, both of self and others, can be part of the healing journey, though it does not mean excusing harmful behavior. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1047-Overcoming Adversity and Mastering Resilience 53:33

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Resilience Definition Resilience is the capacity to bounce back from adversity, demonstrated by emotional strength and the ability to handle crises without being overwhelmed. Resilience is like a ball that, when pushed underwater, bounces back to the surface. Characteristics of Resilient People Resilient individuals are self-aware, have healthy self-esteem, strong social support, and practice radical acceptance. They possess problem-solving skills, tolerance for distress, and maintain an optimistic outlook. Importance of Self-Awareness Resilient individuals are aware of their vulnerabilities and strengths, both emotional and physical. They know how to manage sources of distress, such as confusion, frustration, and negative emotions. Self-Efficacy and Problem-Solving Believing in one's ability to overcome challenges is a cornerstone of resilience. Encouraging people to set small, achievable goals to build confidence and self-efficacy. Hardiness and Commitment Hardiness involves commitment, control, and challenge. People who have hardiness are more likely to face challenges with confidence and view obstacles as opportunities for growth. Managing Social Support and Relationships Resilient individuals maintain healthy relationships characterized by empathy, trust, and openness. They are also skilled at managing relationships with negative or critical people, protecting themselves from being affected by these relationships. Distress Tolerance and Radical Acceptance The ability to feel emotions without needing to react immediately is key to distress tolerance. Radical acceptance means accepting situations that cannot be changed without judgment or resistance. Optimism and Positive Reframing Resilient people find silver linings in challenges and failures, viewing them as learning opportunities. Positive reframing helps to shift the mindset from helplessness to empowerment. Gratitude and Positivity Gratitude practices, such as creating gratitude jars, help individuals stay focused on the positive aspects of life, even during tough times. Identifying things to be grateful for can significantly improve emotional well-being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1046-Helping the Inner Child Process Grief 55:46

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What is the Inner Child? The inner child refers to the collection of memories and experiences from childhood. These memories shape mental shortcuts, called schema, which influence how individuals interpret and react to present-day life events. Children’s Cognitive Development Children process information concretely and personally, often believing events are their fault. The schema formed during childhood tend to be all-or-nothing and are carried into adulthood unless evaluated and adjusted. Impact of Insecure Attachment A lack of secure attachment in childhood can result in a "wounded" inner child. This wounded inner child often struggles with emotional regulation, boundary-setting, and assertiveness in adulthood. Secure Attachment and Emotional Regulation Secure attachments help children identify and manage emotions. These children can tolerate their own and others' emotions and effectively set boundaries and communicate needs. Healing the Wounded Inner Child The goal is not to eliminate the inner child but to heal wounds through self-compassion and re-parenting. Re-parenting involves providing the inner child with the support and validation they missed during childhood. Recognizing the Wounded Inner Child The wounded inner child may manifest as avoidance of fun, fear, or feelings of disempowerment. Healing begins with creating a safe internal space where the inner child feels acknowledged and supported. Types of Trauma Affecting the Inner Child Trauma can result from various childhood experiences such as rejection, abandonment, or unfulfilled dreams. These traumatic memories are often stored and avoided, resulting in unresolved grief. Techniques for Helping the Inner Child Grieve Before grieving can occur, the inner child must feel safe and secure. Engage in practices that foster secure attachment with the self, such as validating emotions and offering consistent support. Mindfulness and Reconnection Reconnect with the inner child through activities like mindfulness, reminiscing about childhood, and engaging in joyful activities that the inner child enjoys. Cognitive Behavioral Approaches Evaluate the child’s schema to see if they are still accurate. Challenge all-or-nothing and self-focused beliefs formed in childhood to promote more adaptive thinking in adulthood. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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1045-CBT Tools to Address Chronic Pain_ It is NOT all in your head! 56:47

há 8 weeks56:47