Jenny Ruffle's story. Barrie's Suicide.

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Can you imagine the pain of losing a loved one to suicide, compounded by a lack of resources, support, and societal understanding? We know this struggle is very real for many, and today's episode offers an intimate exploration of this heartrending journey. Our brave guest and my friend, Jenny Ruffle, shares her deeply moving story of her husband Barrie's battle with mental health issues and subsequent suicide. Her story is full of love, pain, transformation, and the crucial role of community mental health teams.
We also delve into the larger picture of the devastating impact mental health issues and suicide can have on families. The shock, guilt, and lack of support are a heavy burden that many carry, especially heightened by the current global pandemic. Jenny's story punctuates the urgent need for changes in Medical and Mental Health provision as well as increased support for those going through these unimaginable circumstances.
As we end this deeply impactful episode, we extend our heartfelt wishes for a peaceful holiday season and a hopeful new year.
Useful contacts :-
SOBS Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide. 01159 441 117
Papyrus Prevention of suicide by young people. 02920 789 759 or 0800 068 4141
Cruse Bereavement car and support 0808 808 1677
Samaritan's 0115 944 1117
EMDR Stands for Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing and can help with complicated Grief processes. You can look up local therapists but make sure that they are properly accredited.
Lastly, I'm not an expert on anything much but I know a lot of experts in many things so if you get stuck you can email me at [e-mail] and I'll try to respond as soon as I can.
For those interested in what Palliative care looks like at home there is "The Last Kiss" (Not a Romance)
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Capítulos

1. Jenny Ruffle's story. Barrie's Suicide. (00:00:00)

2. Jenny's Journey With Husband's Suicide (00:00:21)

3. Mental Health Services and Bereavement (00:13:22)

4. Dealing With Mental Health and Suicide (00:23:18)

5. Adjusting to Life After Loss (00:30:08)

6. A Conversation With Dr. Liz O'Reard (00:43:07)