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You Need to Be the Villain in Your Toxic Parent's Story in Order to Take Back Control of Your Life and Heal

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Being the adult child of a parent with borderline or narcissistic personality disorder often means confronting the painful reality of being cast as the "villain" in their story. That s*cks, but learning to sit with this discomfort can help you take back control over your own life and finally prioritize your needs over their expectations.

In this episode, we’ll unpack the dynamics that keep you stuck in this role and offer actionable insights to help you step into your villain role:

  • How conditional love shapes self-worth
  • The exhausting cycle of chasing validation and approval
  • Recognizing the impact of gaslighting in parent-child relationships
  • Breaking free from black-and-white thinking patterns
  • Understanding the emotional cost of manipulation
  • Why embracing the “villain” role can be freeing
  • Building a support system outside of toxic family dynamics
  • Reclaiming your identity with self-acceptance and healing
  • Letting go of the need to rewrite their version of your story

This episode will give you tools to move forward with clarity and confidence. I'm rooting for you!

Here's how else I can help:

Register for my upcoming free workshop, How to Set Boundaries with a BPD or NPD Parent:
confidentboundaries.com/boundariesworkshop

Learn more about the Confident Boundaries Online Community: confidentboundaries.com/join

Work with me in Coaching:
confidentboundaries.com/coaching

Follow me on Instagram:
instagram.com/torieatconfidentboundaries
Watch You're Not Crazy on YouTube:
youtube.com/@torieatconfidentboundaries

Torie Wiksell is a therapist and coach who specializes in working with the adult children of parents with borderline and narcissistic personality disorders. Torie brings a unique perspective having spent years working with clients with personality disorders and growing up with a mother with BPD. Torie provides online therapy to clients located in WA, OR, and CA, and online coaching internationally.
Disclaimer: This podcast is not therapy. If you are in mental health crisis, please contact the Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988.
You're Not Crazy is a podcast owned and produced by Torie Wiksell and...

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Capítulos

1. You Need to Be the Villain in Your Toxic Parent's Story in Order to Take Back Control of Your Life and Heal (00:00:00)

2. Navigating Relationships With Borderline Personality Parents (00:01:05)

3. Embracing the Villain Role (00:11:32)

36 episódios

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Being the adult child of a parent with borderline or narcissistic personality disorder often means confronting the painful reality of being cast as the "villain" in their story. That s*cks, but learning to sit with this discomfort can help you take back control over your own life and finally prioritize your needs over their expectations.

In this episode, we’ll unpack the dynamics that keep you stuck in this role and offer actionable insights to help you step into your villain role:

  • How conditional love shapes self-worth
  • The exhausting cycle of chasing validation and approval
  • Recognizing the impact of gaslighting in parent-child relationships
  • Breaking free from black-and-white thinking patterns
  • Understanding the emotional cost of manipulation
  • Why embracing the “villain” role can be freeing
  • Building a support system outside of toxic family dynamics
  • Reclaiming your identity with self-acceptance and healing
  • Letting go of the need to rewrite their version of your story

This episode will give you tools to move forward with clarity and confidence. I'm rooting for you!

Here's how else I can help:

Register for my upcoming free workshop, How to Set Boundaries with a BPD or NPD Parent:
confidentboundaries.com/boundariesworkshop

Learn more about the Confident Boundaries Online Community: confidentboundaries.com/join

Work with me in Coaching:
confidentboundaries.com/coaching

Follow me on Instagram:
instagram.com/torieatconfidentboundaries
Watch You're Not Crazy on YouTube:
youtube.com/@torieatconfidentboundaries

Torie Wiksell is a therapist and coach who specializes in working with the adult children of parents with borderline and narcissistic personality disorders. Torie brings a unique perspective having spent years working with clients with personality disorders and growing up with a mother with BPD. Torie provides online therapy to clients located in WA, OR, and CA, and online coaching internationally.
Disclaimer: This podcast is not therapy. If you are in mental health crisis, please contact the Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988.
You're Not Crazy is a podcast owned and produced by Torie Wiksell and...

  continue reading

Capítulos

1. You Need to Be the Villain in Your Toxic Parent's Story in Order to Take Back Control of Your Life and Heal (00:00:00)

2. Navigating Relationships With Borderline Personality Parents (00:01:05)

3. Embracing the Villain Role (00:11:32)

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