30. Getting Love Right This Time Around with Relationship Coach Roy Biancalana

See The Upside - Overcoming Obstacles and Doing Life a Little Better Everyday

If you've been through divorce or a significant break up, you may have some work to do to get into Relationship Shape. Spending the time to understand yourself and the ways you show up in relationships can make ALL the difference between repeating old patterns and attracting a deep, intimate connection that brings incredible joy and fulfillment.

Roy's been there. Through his own relationship journey he learned how to look at himself, get honest and clear about the areas where he wanted to do better and developed a system to help others do the same.

In the interview we talk about:

• Why it's not about "finding the right person" but rather looking within
• How to know if you're emotionally available and how to know if someone ELSE is emotionally available
• Why rebound relationships happen, what they mean and why they usually don't last
• Why looking within is the key to healing from break ups and showing up authentically in future relationships
• The way your past comes into play in relationships - how it can help and how it can cause problems
• How to continue to grow and change while dating
• How dating is like sports - it's all about letting go of the past and clearing your mind for success moving forward
• Why pain isn't always bad and how to use it to grow and facilitate change
• Why understanding what you are feeling is crucial to success in relationships and how to do it
• How blame can keep you stuck and why forgiveness is the path to letting go

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Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-attracting-lasting-love-podcast/id1561528328
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